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Getting Lost is the diary kept by Annie Ernaux during the year and a half she had a secret love affair with a younger, married man, an attaché to the Soviet embassy in Paris. Her novel, Simple Passion, was based on this affair, but here her writing is immediate and unfiltered. In these diaries it is 1989 and Annie is divorced with two grown sons, living in the suburbs of Paris ...
Getting Lost is the diary kept by Annie Ernaux during the year and a half she had a secret love affair with a younger, married man, an attaché to the Soviet embassy in Paris. Her novel, Simple Passion, was based on this affair, but here her writing is immediate and unfiltered. In these diaries it is 1989 and Annie is divorced with two grown sons, living in the suburbs of Paris and nearing fifty. Her lover escapes the city to see her there and Ernaux seems to survive only in expectation of these encounters.
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Born in 1940, Annie Ernaux grew up in Normandy, studied at Rouen University, and later taught at secondary school. Her books, in particular A Man’s Place and A Woman’s Story, have become contemporary classics in France. The Years won the Prix Renaudot in France in 2008, the Premio Strega in Italy in 2016, and was shortlisted for the Man Booker International Prize in 2019. In 20...
Born in 1940, Annie Ernaux grew up in Normandy, studied at Rouen University, and later taught at secondary school. Her books, in particular A Man’s Place and A Woman’s Story, have become contemporary classics in France. The Years won the Prix Renaudot in France in 2008, the Premio Strega in Italy in 2016, and was shortlisted for the Man Booker International Prize in 2019. In 2017, Annie Ernaux was awarded the Marguerite Yourcenar Prize for her life’s work.
Alison L. Strayer is a Canadian writer and translator. Her work has been shortlisted for the Governor General’s Award for Literature and for Translation, the Grand Prix du Livre de Montréal, and longlisted for the Prix Albertine. Her translation of The Years was awarded the 2018 French-American Prize, shortlisted for the Man Booker International in 2019, and awarded the Warwick Prize for Women in Translation, honouring both author and translator.
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- 梦见母亲的棺椁，我想在上面盖满鲜花（这个简要的描述无法完全呈现梦境——叙述梦境之难，难于上青天，梦与文字向来是死对头——唯有真实的字迹能够表达一二。）她刚刚辞世，我知道有一天我也会躺在那里。 这本日记需要分成两个栏位。一栏用来保存当下的文字记录，另一栏预备在几个星期后用来演绎个中含义。这个栏位要大，因为我可能有好几种不同的阐释。 (查看原文)
夏天珍珠梅 3赞
2024-09-30 22:51:35
—— 引自第86页 - 今晨，马路上，手握方向盘，眼泪簌簌地流，一如母亲过世的时候；还有也像我拿掉孩子之后，游荡卢昂街上的情景。那条人生路，我生命中的秘密大道。同样的失落感，还无法彻底厘清，也唯有写作能真正的厘清。 (查看原文)
夏天珍珠梅 2赞
2024-10-10 23:19:39
—— 引自第132页
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0 有用 胡文塔多 2024-09-20 18:21:38 上海
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2 有用 Joie 2023-03-02 21:03:29 美国
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1 有用 查怜花 2022-11-08 06:47:46 英国
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0 有用 Diane🥑 2023-08-03 05:30:50 法国
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Aloysius.🌈 2025-01-08 22:10:29 上海人民出版社2024版
短评放不下的
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姬鹏 2024-10-26 15:35:02 上海人民出版社2024版
《迷失》：安妮·埃尔诺“不惜一切代价”把自身融入文学
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云淡风清 2024-09-27 07:40:17 上海人民出版社2024版
爱情的威力
安妮·埃尔诺的作品以其自传性质和深刻的自我反思而著称，她通过第一人称的叙述方式，坦诚自己的经历，包括家庭生活、青少年时期的挑战以及成年后的感情经历。她的作品记录了一系列感情上的波动，如失恋、离婚等等，作品《羞涩》描写了家庭不和的主题，她的自传不仅记录了个人... (展开)
潘妮 2024-06-24 07:57:44
受波伏娃影响的安妮艾尔诺与她的激情
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kolal84 2025-01-19 14:05:35
The power of lust
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Beaflower 2024-11-16 21:24:57 上海人民出版社2024版
欲望无穷无尽，柔情和激情交织
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泛舟书海 2024-09-22 10:19:56 上海人民出版社2024版
迷失在人间
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愤怒的小马 2024-09-07 00:30:34 上海人民出版社2024版
“我在这本日记中看到了一些原始而黑暗的东西”
文/伊莎贝尔·马丁（Isabelle Martin） 在《简单的激情》（1992）一书中，安妮·埃尔诺讲述了她与一位在苏联旅行时认识的年轻已婚男子长达一年的婚外情。在她与这位“阴影中的情人”交往的整个过程中，日记是她唯一的写作手段，也是她等待下一次约会的一种方式。《简单的激情》... (展开)
Adèle 2023-04-19 08:04:41 Gallimard2002版
在passion和写作中自我迷失
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前前后后花了三个月才读完这本书，中间有过许多次弃读的想法。读不下去的原因是，它的内容并没有那么吸引我：作者与一个驻巴黎的苏联外交官从一夜情的发展成炮友关系，而整本日记就是Ernaux对他们之间持续一年多的关系的记录。记录什么呢，记录他们每一次愉悦的性爱体验，也记... (展开)
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