Dear Robin (original) (raw)
GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! You are NOT better than anyone else on this planet, I don't care if you have only slept with two men in your entire 40 years on this planet, that does not make you the moral arbiter of all that is good and bad on this planet. I have apologized to you up down and sideways, I think I have done spinning, spiraling twirling convulsions of apology, and yet you keep going on and on. "Seh slept with my husband, she is the lowest of the low...my husband (insert moony eyed naive expressions of love here) would never do such a thing if she hadn't seduced him". HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO BE TOLD BY ME AND EVERYONE ELSE, HE LIED!!!! He told me he wasn't married! I was fresh out of a marriage I thought would last forever, buying my own place so I could raise my three kids in peace. And your husband the gas man showed up and within two minutes the manipulative pos got it out of me that I was getting divorced, that I was "sad", and he moved in for the kill. Oh, why don't you let me cheer you up, take you out to lunch, blah blah blah. When he would come over to my place, or meet me for lunch, or kiss me like I had never been kissed in my life, he never once told me he was married. In fact, he told me he had three kids, and that you were "reasonable" about letting him see them. Once he had to tell me the truth about being married (it was christmas time after all and I was a little curious about why he couldn't be around at all) I was hooked. Stupidly. Because I have this weakness and I want to be loved and I let myself believe that he loved me. He tells you it was just s ex well, he should have clued me in, because he told me all the time that once his kids were grown we would be together...that if he wasn't married already he would marry me...that he loved me. I FELL FOR IT. Does that make me a tramp? No, it makes me terminally stupid, just like you.
Because do you think i am the only one? YOu honestly think that in 20 years of marriage ( a marriage he told me was without passion, and that you only put out on christmas and his birthday) he never did this before? PUHLEEZE honey. If he was hitting on me within ten minutes of walking in the door, it def was not his first time. he told me about some chick at the place he used to work...and one other customer...no details, just that they caught his interest.
So stop going on and on in your lj about how the two of you are so much better than everyone else, that your love is so real and honest and wonderful that it will see you through anything. You go on thinking that I am the devil and that I hooked him in...go on, think whatever makes you happy, whatever floats your little boat. Because if you took the wool off your eyes and asked yourself, what kind of man cheats on his wife, and tells a single woman with a broken heart and an obvious need for affection that he is single? What kind of man uses a person's need for love as a tool to get what he wants? is that the kind of man you want to live with?
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