tasksource/social-chemestry-101 · Datasets at Hugging Face (original) (raw)

doing something that causes other people to lose trust in you.

losing trust in my friend

reddit/amitheasshole/aypvmz

It's bad to do something that causes other people to lose trust in you.

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people participating in the big events in their friends' lives if asked.

saying no to being a bridesmaid at a friend's wedding

reddit/amitheasshole/9tzn0z

People are expected to participate in the big events in their friends' lives if asked.

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narrator|a bridesmaid|a friend

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

Listening to each other's issues.

telling my boyfriend I am bored and unhappy at my job

reddit/amitheasshole/a1311q

Partners should listen to each other's issues.

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needing space from family.

not wanting to be around my family

reddit/amitheasshole/akkcpn

It is okay to need space from family.

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washing my cat's bowls in the kitchen sink

reddit/amitheasshole/aof4ml

It's good to keep things clean.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

saying things that are racist.

reddit/amitheasshole/b4c25e

It's bad to say things that are racist.

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Your friends deleting any photos of you that make you look bad.

deleting awful pictures of me from my friends phone

reddit/amitheasshole/alro7y

Your friends are expected to delete any photos of you that make you look bad.

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being angry with your partner over money.

getting angry at my girlfriend after she told me she has an emergency fund from before we started dating 3 years ago

reddit/amitheasshole/a73l8g

It's wrong to be angry with your partner over money.

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fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

not following through on your commitments.

pulling out of a group project at the last minute

reddit/amitheasshole/ax9t4t

It's bad to not follow through on your commitments.

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It's reasonable for someone

calling themselves an American if they're from an American country.

defending my right to call myself an American, even if people from Southern/central american countries call me out for this

reddit/amitheasshole/aeaw4t

It's reasonable for someone to call themselves an American if they're from an American country.

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narrator|an American|people

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

feeling angry when you find out your roommate lied to you

telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate

reddit/amitheasshole/adwxny

If you find out that your roommate lied to you, it's okay to feel angry.

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narrator|my roommate|a new roommate

making someone else feel bad just because you think they aren't cool.

telling my father that he embarrasses me in front of the people at my school

reddit/amitheasshole/aka65b

It's not okay to make someone else feel bad just because you think they aren't cool.

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narrator|my father|the people at my school

not caring for Christmas.

reddit/amitheasshole/a4hfkv

It's okay not to care for Christmas.

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wanting people to stick to a deal they made.

refusing to refund a sale to my family member

reddit/amitheasshole/9v4v5g

It's understandable to want people to stick to a deal they made.

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narrator|my family member

getting upset with my girlfriend for not knowing how many minutes are in an hour

reddit/amitheasshole/ba1o7i

It's understandable to make mistakes.

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being excited about a new job.

wanting to boast about my new job

reddit/amitheasshole/b832ok

It's understandable to be excited about a new job.

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care-harm|sanctity-degradation

listening to graphic audio books in your work car that might offend your clients.

snapping at and reporting a medical transport driver for listening to a graphic audiobook with clients in the car

reddit/amitheasshole/9w539i

You shouldn't listen to graphic audio books in your work car that might offend your clients.

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narrator|a medical transport driver|clients

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

wanting to hang out with people close to your ex.

wanting to hang out with my ex's brother

reddit/amitheasshole/b3hq29

It's okay to want to hang out with people close to your ex.

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narrator|my ex 's brother|my ex

hurting your significant other

accidentally abusing my girlfriend

reddit/amitheasshole/acq804

It is wrong to hurt your significant other

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keeping your family company.

not wanting to attend family dinners

reddit/amitheasshole/amv8ew

You should keep your family company.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

problems being solved by the manager

arguing with the employee and getting the manager involved

reddit/amitheasshole/b3hvgo

It is good for the manger to solve problems.

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narrator|the employee|the manager

never dating someone you do not have a preference for.

reddit/amitheasshole/adc9tx

You should never date someone you do not have a preference for.

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not wanting to pay the Shaw bill

reddit/amitheasshole/a1u3mb

You should always pay your bills.

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reprimanding bad neighbors

reporting my neighbor to our hoa

reddit/amitheasshole/b2yfsl

Bad neighbors should be reprimanded

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feeling hurt if your friend is critical of work you've done

telling my friend his essays is bad and he should rewrite it

reddit/amitheasshole/aw1a97

It's understandable to feel hurt if your friend is critical of work you've done.

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being mad at your family for being inappropriate.

being pissed my brother announced a death in his wife's family

reddit/amitheasshole/atlptz

It's okay to be mad at your family for being inappropriate.

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narrator|my brother|his wife|his wife 's family

keeping some aspects of your life personal.

going on a holiday without telling my friends

reddit/amitheasshole/b7dcir

It is okay to keep some aspects of your life personal.

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not getting your children haircuts.

not cutting my son's hair

reddit/amitheasshole/aph0gf

It's wrong not to get your children haircuts.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

helping your friends when they're feeling down.

making a video trying to cheer up my friend

reddit/amitheasshole/b4t08v

It's good to help your friends when they're feeling down.

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getting mad at your teachers.

getting angry at my art teacher

reddit/amitheasshole/aiv7nb

You shouldn't get mad at your teachers.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

giving notice before being absent from school or work

Leaving School with no notice

reddit/amitheasshole/9ws9em

You should give notice before being absent from school or work

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morality-ethics|social-norms

making fun of other people.

saying an Elderly Woman's Wig looks stupid

reddit/amitheasshole/b4ohtf

It's wrong to make fun of other people.

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narrator|an Elderly Woman

having trust in a relationship

looking through my ex's phone and then leaving her

reddit/amitheasshole/a4e58y

Trust is important in a relationship.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

being loyal to your friends and not abandon them when they might need you

leaving the group of friends

reddit/amitheasshole/a9wlbm

You should be loyal to your friends and not abandon them when they might need you

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narrator|group of friends

expecting your kids to view you as a hero.

resenting that my children see their mom as a hero

reddit/amitheasshole/asxvj8

You shouldn't expect your kids to view you as a hero.

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narrator|my children|their mom

not wanting to share my things with housemate

reddit/amitheasshole/ba5jy3

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pursuing a romantic interest.

dating my sister in laws best friend and ruining their friendship

reddit/amitheasshole/b9ryng

It's okay to pursue a romantic interest.

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narrator|my sister in laws best friend|my sister in laws

getting somebody a gift they like for their birthday

being disappointed with a birthday gift

reddit/amitheasshole/b9jpwi

It is expected that for somebody's birthday you get them a gift they like.

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speaking up when someone's doing something harmful to someone else.

not telling someone's girlfriend that he cheated on her

reddit/amitheasshole/avxz68

It's good to speak up when someone's doing something harmful to someone else.

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narrator|someone|someone 's girlfriend

telling a person, who's had their feelings hurt by a person, that it's probably happening because they won't stop complaining online and very obviously vaguebooking

reddit/amitheasshole/b3oe61

It is bad to constantly be complaining.

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narrator|a person|a person

choosing not to tell people when you're traveling out of state.

leaving the state without telling anyone

reddit/amitheasshole/b6cxc3

It's OK to choose not to tell people when you're traveling out of state.

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Apologizing for something you did a long time ago

apologizing to someone face to face for cheating on them a long time ago

reddit/amitheasshole/awm6rw

Apologizing for something you did a long time ago is a waste of time.

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insulting a friend's accomplishments.

trying to knock my friend down a peg for becoming an EMT

reddit/amitheasshole/ak75lr

You should not insult a friend's accomplishments.

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friends having bad attitudes towards each other.

being frustrated with a friend for constantly bailing on dnd for poor time management skills and for his attitude

reddit/amitheasshole/a6dves

Friends should not have bad attitudes towards each other.

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keeping your online accounts secure.

changing the passwords to my streaming services

reddit/amitheasshole/abn4oh

It's good to keep your online accounts secure.

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getting into a relationship with your partner's siblings.

wanting a relationship with my wifes sister

reddit/amitheasshole/admbml

You shouldn't get into a relationship with your partner's siblings.

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narrator|my wifes sister|my wifes

care-harm|fairness-cheating

not wanting to support tobacco companies.

deciding not to be friends with a guy because he spent his whole life working for big tobacco

reddit/amitheasshole/b556ks

It's understandable to not want to support tobacco companies.

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staying out of other's personal business.

not saying anything to my friend about her dildos

reddit/amitheasshole/avgy4t

It is good to stay out of other's personal business.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

being honest about your relationships.

lying about how I met my so

reddit/amitheasshole/b39ide

You are expected to be honest about your relationships.

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creating a friendly atmosphere when you have roommates.

rarely talking with my elderly roomates

reddit/amitheasshole/alg2n1

It's good to create a friendly atmosphere when you have roommates.

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narrator|my elderly roomates

saying sorry you feel that way

reddit/amitheasshole/b1i0tc

It's good to say you're sorry.

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Older people often have difficulty performing some chores, and should be given the benefit of the doubt.

telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes

reddit/amitheasshole/az3kec

Older people often have difficulty performing some chores, and should be given the benefit of the doubt.

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not lending my sister our car

reddit/amitheasshole/9z43x5

It is expected to help your siblings.

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wanting to have more room to yourself.

wanting "New Year, New me" gym-goers to give up and fail already so I can have the gym to myself again

reddit/amitheasshole/ag2t41

It's understandable to want to have more room to yourself.

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narrator|New Year , New me " gym - goers

hanging up abruptly on my cousin

reddit/amitheasshole/ap4zff

It's rude to hang up on someone.

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being angry at your family for them criticizing you.

getting angry at my dad for criticizing my parenting

reddit/amitheasshole/as96jr

You shouldn't be angry at your family for them criticizing you.

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narrator|my dad|my parenting

slowing down and preparing to stop when a traffic light turns yellow.

going through a yellow light

reddit/amitheasshole/b64cu1

It's expected you slow down and prepare to stop when a traffic light turns yellow.

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being careful not to keep others awake when you can't sleep

getting upset/annoyed with my boyfriend for staying up until 5am

reddit/amitheasshole/alv89u

When you can't sleep, you should be careful not to keep others awake.

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calling my 'posh' friend inbred and saying they had webbed feet

reddit/amitheasshole/azzate

It is rude to insult other people.

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narrator|my ' posh ' friend

care-harm|fairness-cheating

rewarding temper tantrums

starting to get mad that my civil complaints to restaurants/service places are ignored and temper tantrums are rewarded

reddit/amitheasshole/9vqa7n

It's wrong to reward temper tantrums.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

friends showing loyalty to each other

not hugging my ex - (who started and is dating my then-close friend 2 wks after we broke up) - when she came up to me at a small party

reddit/amitheasshole/awyfh9

Friends are expected to show loyalty to each other.

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narrator|my ex|my then - close friend

wanting to be compensated for driving.

reddit/amitheasshole/a4qvsm

It is understandable to want to be compensated for driving.

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not wanting to make plans on your birthday.

not wanting to make plans on my birthday

reddit/amitheasshole/a8jler

It's okay not to want to make plans on your birthday.

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being angry if someone damages what you've made.

getting furious when someone nearly destroys my drawing

reddit/amitheasshole/ay3qov

It is understandable to be angry if someone damages what you've made.

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telling a partner what they can and cannot do with their body.

telling my girlfriend she cant get a tattoo

reddit/amitheasshole/9vrn0i

It is controlling to tell a partner what they can and cannot do with their body.

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giving my terminally ill sister an ultimatum on adopting her children

reddit/amitheasshole/ava5fh

It is rude to give ultimatums.

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narrator|my terminally ill sister|her children

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

skipping out on events that mean a lot to your friends.

potentially skipping my friends vacation wedding

reddit/amitheasshole/a1i9np

You shouldn't skip out on events that mean a lot to your friends.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

doing something nice for someone when they do something nice for you

not 'paying it forward' at Waffle House

reddit/amitheasshole/aun6qc

If someone does something nice for you you should do the same.

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your sibling being upset at you for not getting your nephew a Christmas present.

not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift

reddit/amitheasshole/a8xtll

It is understandable for your sibling to be upset at your for not getting your nephew a Christmas present.

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narrator|my infant nephew

care-harm|sanctity-degradation

arguing about someone's sexuality.

telling my friend to stop calling herself trans

reddit/amitheasshole/b6i6nc

It is not acceptable to argue about someone's sexuality.

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telling your partner they can't talk to their ex's family.

wanting my girlfriend to stop talking with her dead husband's family

reddit/amitheasshole/b41w0n

It's wrong to tell your partner they can't talk to their ex's family.

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narrator|my girlfriend|her dead husband|her dead husband 's family

wanting someone you live with to do their part for the household.

expecting stepson to do his chores still now that he gas a job

reddit/amitheasshole/ajql6y

It is reasonable to want someone you live with to do their part for the household.

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feeling violated if someone used your stuff without asking, even if they replace what they used

hosting a party and drinking a bottle of my roommate/ex booze with my friends but replacing it before she had a chance of even opening it

reddit/amitheasshole/agb8d2

It's expected you'd feel violated if someone used your stuff without asking, even if they replace what they used.

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narrator|my roommate|my roommate / ex|my friends

morality-ethics|social-norms

doing favors for your neighbors.

moving my neighbor's laundry

reddit/amitheasshole/b2dfta

It is nice to do favors for your neighbors.

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refusing a pregnancy test when it's offered to you.

refusing a pregnancy test

reddit/amitheasshole/arg441

You shouldn't refuse a pregnancy test if it's offered to you.

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care-harm|fairness-cheating

being out of control with anger at an ex.

reddit/amitheasshole/amjoyb

It's bad to be out of control with anger at an ex.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

not being there to support your family

applying to a far away university against my dad's wishes

reddit/amitheasshole/b6609l

It is bad not to be there to support your family

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narrator|my dad 's|my dad

offering suggestions to your parents instead of tell them what to do.

telling my parents not to go to a grandmother's funeral because the place is unsafe

reddit/amitheasshole/b8whnf

You should offer suggestions to your parents, not tell them what to do.

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narrator|my parents|grandmother

care-harm|authority-subversion

not feeding everyone else

reddit/amitheasshole/azbqau

You should be willing to help those in need.

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taking care of your health.

not listening to her about my health

reddit/amitheasshole/a4l295

You should take care of your health.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

dumping someone for someone else.

dumping a guy I was dating for my ex

reddit/amitheasshole/aebth2

It's mean to dump someone for someone else.

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wanting to hear a recording of someone dying.

wanting to listen to the tape of Jamal Khashoggi's death

reddit/amitheasshole/a4wbsd

It's wrong to want to hear a recording of someone dying.

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Restricting the guest list for a celebration to loved ones

not wanting this guy at my birthday party

reddit/amitheasshole/a2rymd

Restricting the guest list for a celebration to loved ones is always appropriate.

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allowing someone to stay in your house while you're gone.

telling my dad his girlfriend is destroying his house while he's on vacation

reddit/amitheasshole/9xgcdm

It's fine to allow someone to stay in your house while you're gone.

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narrator|my dad|his girlfriend

talking about your problems with others.

being frustrated with my fiance's and my sex life

reddit/amitheasshole/abqirq

You should talk about your problems with others.

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care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

being there for your child's birthday.

not attending the entirety of my son's 1st birthday

reddit/amitheasshole/b67ghb

You should be there for your child's birthday.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

care-harm|loyalty-betrayal

talking badly about someone behind their back.

reddit/amitheasshole/a0zmwk

It's rude to talk badly about someone behind their back.

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being upset about getting a job you don't want.

being frustrated at being given a job I didnt apply for

reddit/amitheasshole/ahjq4v

It's okay to be upset about getting a job you don't want.

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standing up for yourself at work.

leaving a passive aggressive note for my coworkers

reddit/amitheasshole/aqpbg7

It's acceptable to stand up for yourself at work.

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protecting yourself from getting sick.

not visiting my sick uncle

reddit/amitheasshole/a9f4q2

It's acceptable to protect yourself from getting sick.

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fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

not cheating on your significant other

cheating on my abusive gf

reddit/amitheasshole/aw1u49

It is expected that you do not cheat on your significant other

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fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

receiving a threat from a close friend.

'threatening' to end a close friendship with said friend being severely depressed

reddit/amitheasshole/b6sgeb

Its alarming to receive a threat from a close friend.

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Caring about the health of a significant other.

asking my wife to stop eating more than me

reddit/amitheasshole/b1f13i

It's okay to care about the health of a significant other.

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morality-ethics|social-norms

dirtying your friend's car.

expecting my friend to pay to get my car cleaned after he shat/threw up in it

reddit/amitheasshole/ag3tou

It's wrong to dirty your friend's car.

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getting a little homesick during the holidays

reddit/amitheasshole/ba1fni

During the holidays, it's normal to get a little homesick.

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making my brother's kids show me their plates before they throw their food away

reddit/amitheasshole/arelg7

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narrator|my brother 's kids|my brother

choosing a girlfriend or boyfriend over a friend.

moving in with my girlfriend and not my friend

reddit/amitheasshole/a98kkl

It is wrong to choose a girlfriend or boyfriend over a friend.

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narrator|my girlfriend|my friend

thinking someone you know doesn't always make the best decisions.

questioning my brother's choice to invite some of his wife's 'friends' for a surprise party for his wife

reddit/amitheasshole/a9abct

It's okay to think someone you know doesn't always make the best decisions.

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narrator|my brother|his wife|his wife 's ' friends|his wife

morality-ethics|social-norms

fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal

taking sides against your spouse.

agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat

reddit/amitheasshole/ba3zvb

It is wrong to take sides against your spouse.

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narrator|my friends|my wife

dating a convicted sex offender.

allowing my 17 year old female friend to be with a 31 year old male sexually violent offender

reddit/amitheasshole/b7gf0q

You shouldn't date a convicted sex offender.

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narrator|my 17 year old female friend|31 year old male sexually violent offender