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Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child

Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child

Berghahn Books, Oct 17, 2022

Research paper thumbnail of לקראת הצבת הילד במשפחתו במוקד סוגיית האימוץ – מפנה חיוני להרחבת האימוץ להורים להט

Social Science Research Network, May 20, 2016

Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child: Loss and Suffering in Adoption Proceedings

Research paper thumbnail of Parenting : a study from the parent's perspective

Research paper thumbnail of Adoption in the Bondage of the Oedipal Myth

The Journal of Psychiatry & Law, 1994

This article examines the effect of the Oedipal myth on the axiomatic link between adoption and c... more This article examines the effect of the Oedipal myth on the axiomatic link between adoption and confidentiality. Rank's interpretation, which centers on the choice between knowing and living, is presented as an explanation for the dominance of the generally accepted policy of confidential adoption. It is proposed that confidentiality, which entails concealing the child's whereabouts from the biological parents, suggests that “Laius might kill Oedipus,” thereby attributing evil intentions to the biological parents even in cases where it is their inability, not their evil intent, that leads to the adoption of the child. It is proposed that this portrayal of biological parents might impede adoption and could be avoided if the general policy of adoption were not bound by confidentiality.

Research paper thumbnail of A Rear Unit for the Treatment of Combat Reactions in the Wake of the Yom Kippur War

Psychiatry, 1976

... Moses, Raf; et al. Psychiatry: Journal for the Study of Interpersonal Processes, Vol 39(2), M... more ... Moses, Raf; et al. Psychiatry: Journal for the Study of Interpersonal Processes, Vol 39(2), May 1976, 153-162. Abstract. ... Maintaining a regular timetable or work and activity establishes an anchor for those psychological forces that operate against the regressive pulls. ...

Research paper thumbnail of The need for a paradigm shift in social work: The study of parenting

Research paper thumbnail of Reactions of Families to Chronic Hemodialysis

Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics, 1975

13 families of patients on chronic hemodialysis (with young children at home) were contacted by t... more 13 families of patients on chronic hemodialysis (with young children at home) were contacted by the social worker. Only seven of them agreed to a family interview, which took place at the patient's home. Although the interviews were unstructured some topics were brought up by all families and similar behavior was observed. Specially striking was the lack of empathy as well as of hostility between the parents, while a lot of hostility against all human environment was expressed and children's attempts at expressing empathy were suppressed.

Research paper thumbnail of The Narrative of Parents

Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour, 1996

Research paper thumbnail of The Determinants of Parenthood: Power and Responsibility

Human Relations, 1997

The conception of parental adaptation in terms of the complexity of the balance between the paren... more The conception of parental adaptation in terms of the complexity of the balance between the parent's responsibility and the infant's power is presented. A method based on this conception is proposed as a way to describe and assess parental adaptation. The adaptational view is compared with the clinical approach to parenthood, and its advantages for the detection of parental vulnerability and early intervention in the parent-infant relationship is illustrated. In addition, the conception of parental responsibility, in terms of the parent's evaluation of the balance between his/her responsibility and the infant's power, is compared with the conception of the legal approach which views parental responsibility in terms of accountability and the parent's duties and rights. The evolving change in the societal view of parental responsibility, brought about by the Children Act, requires a shift in the conceptualization of parenthood such as the one proposed by the adapta...

Research paper thumbnail of The Construction of Parental Authority and Co-operation in Reports to the Dutch Court

International Journal of the Sociology of Law, 2001

The texts of 21 reports presented to the court by Child Welfare and Protection (CWP) workers in t... more The texts of 21 reports presented to the court by Child Welfare and Protection (CWP) workers in the Netherlands were examined to explicate the meanings ascribed to 'parental authority' and 'parental co-operation'. These constructs are central in CWP in recommending a Family Supervision Order, the most frequent measure practiced by the Dutch Juvenile Court to protect children from risk. Three types of parent-child relationship were described by this examination: (1) The child is portrayed as the cause for risk because of his personality problems; (2) The parent^child relationship is described as the risk; (3) The parent is described as carrying the risk because of his personality problems. Recommendations for a Family Supervision Order were made for all three groups. This recommendation was supported by the assessment of parental cooperation. Although four patterns of parental attitude toward professional help have been described, all ended up in presenting the parents as cooperative. The uniform recommendations made by the reporters as well as the uniform assessment of parents as cooperative indicate a parallel compliant position of the reporters visa -vis the court, as well as the construction of the parent as compliant in relation to the reporters.

Research paper thumbnail of Child Protection and the Conception of Parental Responsibility

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 2005

* We thank the students who participated in the studies, Mira Barkai (in Israel), Nienke Boesveld... more * We thank the students who participated in the studies, Mira Barkai (in Israel), Nienke Boesveldt and Andries Schilperoord (in Holland). ** The advice given by Prof. Joshua Weisman and the critique and comments made to earlier drafts by Mira Barkai, Prof. Olive Stevenson, Hadas Rosenne, Dina Vardi and Iris Zilkha are greatly appreciated.

Research paper thumbnail of Legal Parenthood and Continued Parent-Child Relationships—The Moral and Experiential Aspects of Parenting

Research paper thumbnail of On the Link between Academia and the Practice of Social Work

Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour, 2000

Research paper thumbnail of When a man encounters a woman, Satan is also present: Clinical relationships in Bedouin society

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 1994

Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the co... more Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the conflict between clinical precepts and Bedouin codes of social conduct. The efects of the conflict on the transference relationship are examined by means of case presentations, and rules of conduct acceptable in both the professional realm and Bedouin society are proposed as an avenue toward resolution.

Research paper thumbnail of When a man encounters a woman, Satan is also present: Clinical relationships in Bedouin society

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 1994

Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the co... more Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the conflict between clinical precepts and Bedouin codes of social conduct. The efects of the conflict on the transference relationship are examined by means of case presentations, and rules of conduct acceptable in both the professional realm and Bedouin society are proposed as an avenue toward resolution.

Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child

Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child

Berghahn Books, Oct 17, 2022

Research paper thumbnail of לקראת הצבת הילד במשפחתו במוקד סוגיית האימוץ – מפנה חיוני להרחבת האימוץ להורים להט

Social Science Research Network, May 20, 2016

Research paper thumbnail of In the Best Interests of the Child: Loss and Suffering in Adoption Proceedings

Research paper thumbnail of Parenting : a study from the parent's perspective

Research paper thumbnail of Adoption in the Bondage of the Oedipal Myth

The Journal of Psychiatry & Law, 1994

This article examines the effect of the Oedipal myth on the axiomatic link between adoption and c... more This article examines the effect of the Oedipal myth on the axiomatic link between adoption and confidentiality. Rank's interpretation, which centers on the choice between knowing and living, is presented as an explanation for the dominance of the generally accepted policy of confidential adoption. It is proposed that confidentiality, which entails concealing the child's whereabouts from the biological parents, suggests that “Laius might kill Oedipus,” thereby attributing evil intentions to the biological parents even in cases where it is their inability, not their evil intent, that leads to the adoption of the child. It is proposed that this portrayal of biological parents might impede adoption and could be avoided if the general policy of adoption were not bound by confidentiality.

Research paper thumbnail of A Rear Unit for the Treatment of Combat Reactions in the Wake of the Yom Kippur War

Psychiatry, 1976

... Moses, Raf; et al. Psychiatry: Journal for the Study of Interpersonal Processes, Vol 39(2), M... more ... Moses, Raf; et al. Psychiatry: Journal for the Study of Interpersonal Processes, Vol 39(2), May 1976, 153-162. Abstract. ... Maintaining a regular timetable or work and activity establishes an anchor for those psychological forces that operate against the regressive pulls. ...

Research paper thumbnail of The need for a paradigm shift in social work: The study of parenting

Research paper thumbnail of Reactions of Families to Chronic Hemodialysis

Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics, 1975

13 families of patients on chronic hemodialysis (with young children at home) were contacted by t... more 13 families of patients on chronic hemodialysis (with young children at home) were contacted by the social worker. Only seven of them agreed to a family interview, which took place at the patient's home. Although the interviews were unstructured some topics were brought up by all families and similar behavior was observed. Specially striking was the lack of empathy as well as of hostility between the parents, while a lot of hostility against all human environment was expressed and children's attempts at expressing empathy were suppressed.

Research paper thumbnail of The Narrative of Parents

Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour, 1996

Research paper thumbnail of The Determinants of Parenthood: Power and Responsibility

Human Relations, 1997

The conception of parental adaptation in terms of the complexity of the balance between the paren... more The conception of parental adaptation in terms of the complexity of the balance between the parent's responsibility and the infant's power is presented. A method based on this conception is proposed as a way to describe and assess parental adaptation. The adaptational view is compared with the clinical approach to parenthood, and its advantages for the detection of parental vulnerability and early intervention in the parent-infant relationship is illustrated. In addition, the conception of parental responsibility, in terms of the parent's evaluation of the balance between his/her responsibility and the infant's power, is compared with the conception of the legal approach which views parental responsibility in terms of accountability and the parent's duties and rights. The evolving change in the societal view of parental responsibility, brought about by the Children Act, requires a shift in the conceptualization of parenthood such as the one proposed by the adapta...

Research paper thumbnail of The Construction of Parental Authority and Co-operation in Reports to the Dutch Court

International Journal of the Sociology of Law, 2001

The texts of 21 reports presented to the court by Child Welfare and Protection (CWP) workers in t... more The texts of 21 reports presented to the court by Child Welfare and Protection (CWP) workers in the Netherlands were examined to explicate the meanings ascribed to 'parental authority' and 'parental co-operation'. These constructs are central in CWP in recommending a Family Supervision Order, the most frequent measure practiced by the Dutch Juvenile Court to protect children from risk. Three types of parent-child relationship were described by this examination: (1) The child is portrayed as the cause for risk because of his personality problems; (2) The parent^child relationship is described as the risk; (3) The parent is described as carrying the risk because of his personality problems. Recommendations for a Family Supervision Order were made for all three groups. This recommendation was supported by the assessment of parental cooperation. Although four patterns of parental attitude toward professional help have been described, all ended up in presenting the parents as cooperative. The uniform recommendations made by the reporters as well as the uniform assessment of parents as cooperative indicate a parallel compliant position of the reporters visa -vis the court, as well as the construction of the parent as compliant in relation to the reporters.

Research paper thumbnail of Child Protection and the Conception of Parental Responsibility

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 2005

* We thank the students who participated in the studies, Mira Barkai (in Israel), Nienke Boesveld... more * We thank the students who participated in the studies, Mira Barkai (in Israel), Nienke Boesveldt and Andries Schilperoord (in Holland). ** The advice given by Prof. Joshua Weisman and the critique and comments made to earlier drafts by Mira Barkai, Prof. Olive Stevenson, Hadas Rosenne, Dina Vardi and Iris Zilkha are greatly appreciated.

Research paper thumbnail of Legal Parenthood and Continued Parent-Child Relationships—The Moral and Experiential Aspects of Parenting

Research paper thumbnail of On the Link between Academia and the Practice of Social Work

Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour, 2000

Research paper thumbnail of When a man encounters a woman, Satan is also present: Clinical relationships in Bedouin society

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 1994

Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the co... more Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the conflict between clinical precepts and Bedouin codes of social conduct. The efects of the conflict on the transference relationship are examined by means of case presentations, and rules of conduct acceptable in both the professional realm and Bedouin society are proposed as an avenue toward resolution.

Research paper thumbnail of When a man encounters a woman, Satan is also present: Clinical relationships in Bedouin society

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 1994

Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the co... more Bedouin society between male therapists and their female clients are discussed in terms of the conflict between clinical precepts and Bedouin codes of social conduct. The efects of the conflict on the transference relationship are examined by means of case presentations, and rules of conduct acceptable in both the professional realm and Bedouin society are proposed as an avenue toward resolution.