Lipstick Lesbians (original) (raw)

| Lesbian Parenting... | | | | ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 02:38pm 01/07/2006 | | | | | In the case of lesbian parenting, how would the kids distinguish verbally between the moms? One mom is "Mom" and the other "mommy?" So far, i have seen gay parents use "dad" and "pappa", or something along those lines, but when it comes to parenting with two women, the names run a little short. Does anybody have any ideas on what to teach the children to say? -Maryxposted | | | | | | Post | | | | | |

| am i a lipsticklesbo? | | | | ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 11:34am 08/10/2004 | | | | | Hey!! I'm new and thought I'd say hello!! I'm 17 and I live in Florida. If you need help with the HTML I can help out a bit if you let me know what you wanna do with this. I know a lot about HTML, but I don't know everything...lol You can look at my journal if you want. I change the layout of it weekly. : ) I've also done the layouts for: chimmychimchim drumsticks4you ( Me : )Collapse ) | | | | | | Read 5 - Post | | | | | |

| femme issues | | | | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 01:32am 21/09/2004 | | | | | mood: curious I fear that this community is dying and that makes me sad because it started out really well. Anyway- I was wondering how you ladies feel about the stigmas of being a 'lipstick lesbian,' or 'femme.' Personally, It annoys me that most people assume I'm straight when they meet me/see me because of my appearance. For example, I had a regular customer come into work the other day asking me if I would date her son. I felt really odd/uncomfortable telling this woman that I was seeing a woman. -Or maybe I'm just not as comfortable with my sexuality in the public eye as I thought?- Another thing that really irks me is when straight guys ask if they can watch you make out/have sex with other girls. I work with this kid who is constantly harassing me about finding another girl so he can watch us. The thought of this makes me terribly sick! :(I also get annoyed with the guys at work who make bets that I'm really bi or that they will be the one to 'break me in'-ughhh that's so nasty.Does anyone else here have these problems being a very feminine lesbian? | | | | | | Read 5 - Post | | | | | |

| promoting | | | | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 04:42pm 14/09/2004 | | | | | Just wanted to let you guys know what was out there... drop_a_stone - a community for us gay gals trying to lose a few pounds ;) suntanlotion9 - a community for lesbian, bisexuals, gays in florida or south florida. come, join, love, be merry! x-posted | | | | | | Post | | | | | |

| me? | | | | ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 10:46pm 08/09/2004 | | | | | mood: sleepy **( lipstick or chapstick?Collapse )**If you try to check my journal, youll see its empty. I just created this name, but I'm not new to lj. I've had another name over a year. I can definitely help with html, since I'm a big dork like that. | | | | | | Read 2 - Post | | | | | |

| Promoting | | | | ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 01:01pm 07/09/2004 | | | | | Hello everyone! Well, if anyone out here is like me, I'm trying loose a few pounds before the holidays come around and I put a few more back on. Anyways, I started a community called drop_a_stone for those lesbians like me out there who are trying to drop a few pounds. Come, be merry, meet people and love yourself! xoxo - Marti | | | | | | Post | | | | | |

| | | | | ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | | 08:31pm 30/08/2002 | | | | | mood: frustrated hey all. im guessing id fit into the category of a lipstick lesbo since majority of the time im mistaken as a straight chick. i mean its not like i dont make it obvious!! its just that ppl assume that if your a lesbian you have to act like one and dress like one... pfft...well how dare anyone out there, in society or the gay scene, make me feel inferior just because of the way i appear. for a long time when i first came out, i was made to think that being a fem was a disadvantage to me. no girls wanted to approach me because they either felt too intimidated or figured id be straight or bi curious etc. i have since realized and accepted that @ least im an individual. here in brisbane, australia, there arent many lipstick lesbians, and the ones that are usually give into the pressure of not fitting in. i know i dont fit into the stereotypical categories and im over trying! but just some words of advice, clothes don’t dictate someone's personality; the world is just a stage and we're all in costume. i think everyone needs to lighten up and stop being judgmental and discriminative!! Where's the fun in being a puppet anyway?!hmm...sorry about my rambling its just that i needed to express this and i figured that @ least someone in this community would be able to relate with me...well i hope so...lolanywho...things to do, people to see.... | | | | | | Read 2 - Post | | | | | |