Choleric and Choleric Compatibility | Psychologia (original) (raw)
Initially, Choleric men and women may not feel strongly drawn to each other, but there is usually no dislike either. There can be a slight difference between men and women: Choleric men may feel a little more positive about Choleric women than the other way around. Nevertheless, they can fall in love, and when they do, they may find each other very exciting.
Choleric people are very savvy, and they like someone who is equally competent and focused. They also want someone they can talk to about shared interests. Both are analytical and logical and tend to have a “facts and only facts” approach. They are straightforward people who usually say what they mean. Because they also tend to enjoy debates, they may appreciate each other for being informed, direct, and mentally sharp.
This personality type is the most emotionally contained of all four temperaments. Other people might see Cholerics as cold or detached, but the truth is that they simply believe problems should be solved without emotions getting in the way. If they do not display their emotions in public, it does not mean they have no feelings. Another Choleric person understands that behind this tough exterior, there are real feelings, emotions, and needs. One of the most beautiful things about this relationship is that when they say “I love you,” both know it is meant seriously, with no need for second-guessing.
Choleric people are decisive without being impulsive. They usually analyze the situation first and then take action after considering the important details. They may admire each other’s decision-making skills, and this can be one of the areas where they get along best.
Choleric people are not very socially conforming, and they will not drag each other to social events they find silly or boring. Both may prefer to spend their time with like-minded friends, where they can enjoy intellectual conversations, an unusual movie, or a short vacation, as long as it does not interfere with their work.
They understand each other’s ambition and desire to reach the top of their field. Both understand that success takes time and commitment, and they usually give each other enough space and independence to pursue their goals. Choleric men and women may even enjoy long periods of time alone, working on their own projects, partly because they do not feel the need to express love verbally all the time.
Although personality compatibility is very good here, there are still some potential problems. Choleric people love to work, and once the first stage of passionate romance settles into a longer-term relationship, they may not spend enough time together. As a result, one or both partners may start to feel lonely, crave more attention or passion, and become more tempted to look elsewhere.
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