'Ello (original) (raw)

An intro along with questions.

I'm new to this community. I was mainly seeking help and tips about... well sex of course.

I'm 18 and still a virgin. Although I think the factor of Love challenges my morals and they quietly slipped out the window and surprisingly enough I'm quite alright with that.

First time, soon. Maybe. I'm alright with it, comfortable with the fact but the pain that may occur. My boyfriend is a virgin too, he's fingered me but only uses one finger. I asked him to use two once and I never felt such a pain before (I could have been nervous though), maybe he was approaching it wrong or maybe I'm just ridiculously tight. We're thinking about sex, should we wait till he could fit two in there? Or try before we have sex and decide then if it's doable?

I've heard that if he takes his time, and we communicate the pain won't be so bad, or possibly non-exisitent. Could anyone tell me if this is true?

But when it comes time should I put a towel down on the bed? Or will I only bleed after wards if at all?

Any feedback at all will be much appreciated. I hate going into things not knowing what will happen but I believe it's all up to the two of us to find most of this out.