I know it's been a while since anyone has posted... (original) (raw)

I am new to this community and seriously freaking out right now and feeling absolutely terrible for my irresponsible actions this past week.

I had sex with a guy that I know a few times about a week ago-- I am on birth control nuva ring---totally consistent. But we did not use a condom and he did cum inside of me.

Than just a few days ago I got back with my ex boyfriend (told him about having sex with another person) I have had sex with my boyfriend twice since-- no condom and he came inside of me.

I decided to take the morning after pill to be on the safe side-- if I am pregnant I don't want to have to worry about who the father is?? Hopefully.

I do not want to be pregnant. I am freaking out because I honestly want to be with my boyfriend and get married--- and having sex with another person was a big mistake. I feel terrible for many many reasons and I am still trying to work things out with my boyfriend on a whole other level.
I guess I am freaking out over pregnancy because it would absolutely ruin my life right now. Pregnancies have a tendency to happen when you least expect them.

I am currently supposed to be on my period, but it is very light spotting and making me more paranoid. I have taken two pregnancy tests and both have come out negative but it might be too soon to tell. My period being light is not an unusual thing for me, it is due to the birth control. This makes me worry even more because I cannot rely on my body to tell me what's going on.

I have been really stressed and paranoid lately. I am so worried that I could be pregnant with someones child that I do not want. I have never been pregnant or thought I was pregnant before. I am causing myself so much stress and my body is starting to turn on me. I have been worried to the point where I want to vomit I am sick to my stomach.

Basically, does anyone have any experience with this kind of situation. I have been reading everything that I possibly can online about timing, and when I should take a pregnancy test, how long sperm lives in the body, all that...but I just need someone to tell me what to do. I need to calm down. The pressure is killing me. I want to make an appointment to go to the doctor. I am pretty sure that I should be okay as far as std's go, but I want to be positive. How long before I would notice any kind of infection? How long before I can be accurately tested for anything? I know that it varies with the infection, but I am mostly thinking about something common like chlamydia or gonorrhea.

Thank you for any help that you can give me.