The time has come.. 2 important questions (original) (raw)

I will try to keep this short.
You can read the confusing rambels about how i came to these questions, but I need them answered ASAP! HELP!
Who is the Roman/ Italin equilvent to Heckate? She has to have the Dogs, the black dress, the moon, and the Tripple Goddess in one. I can't figure it out.
If you do the removel of the evil eye diffrint than the way someone grew up with it done, will it still work?

For some weeks I have had some strange dreams. Then I was inspired to look at my spirtual life again. I Clensed my Tarot cards for no appaernt reason one day. Then i made my candel stand smaller. Then one day i wnet into a deep mediation:
I was in the moon card. The goddess dressed in a black gown spoke to me. I knew it wasn't Pershpine, or any of the others I was close to. All I knew she was a Dark Mother. She told me things I've wnated to hear for awhile, and let me know that my path is going to darken. But that I would frind more strength in the darkness than I ever had in the light.
The next night mediation, same place, same goddess. She says I know one of her names, but the name she wants me to call her would be found in a serch through my anstesory.
So for 2 weeks every night I mediate and speak with the dark mother. Light her insence, go to bed. Insence was used up when i awoke, except for last thursday. that nights insence was not taken, as i was not allowed to enter her land the night before or that morning. No insence would burn eather.
My best friend/ spirtual sister had passed the night before.
That evening the Dark mother let to her and she gave me the stregth to confort others. So first clue to her name, I know one name for her that's close is Hecate, but that's not her. Anouther clue to her is that she is tripple goddess. She's a moon mother also, as in the Moon Card. all things in that card relate to her.
So any clues?
Last night I had anouther stange dream, I was back in the "old countrey" and I was learning some herbel cures, and in the dream we spoke, my grive and I, about the eye.
My father calls me and I wake up from it. Someone gave him the eye.
I was never taught the Old Country way, I leaned by reading, and by inner knowledge. I've taken care of others, but never my father. My Nana had done it the old ways in his childhood.
Should I call her? Should i worry that my way won't work?

Thanks in Advace.
Blessings,
Stella9