The Pain Sutras (original) (raw)

May 20th, 2009

Someone on another list recently asked for a description of how someone "who actively and openly participates in the Poly lifestyle" experiences intimacy.My reply follows. ( Read more...Collapse )
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October 21st, 2008

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January 29th, 2008

How would you life be different, and especially, how would your sex and/or bdsm activities be differen if your skills in negotiation were stronger than they are now?
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December 4th, 2007

October 9th, 2007

Piercing the Veil – As we shed our everyday skins and enter the world of myth, we invite you to join us at Piercing the Veil, the Sacred Mark Sanctuary's yearly Samhain experience. This year, we will be exploring the story of Grandmother Spider, the Weaver of Dreams. How can we feed her what holds us back, and learn to weave the web of our greatest desires and imaginings?The ritual will be predicated by a clear safety procedure talk and piercing demonstration (much shorter than in years past!). Participants may choose their method of participation, including receiving small hypodermic ("play") piercings, energy pull hooks, or other non-piercing forms of connection. Our rituals are not for spectators, so please come prepared to engage on some level.We ask ritual participants to meditate on what they wish to leave behind as the old year dies, and what they would like to spin into reality as they move forward in their lives. We look forward to celebrating Samhain with you!Registration is $50 per person, which includes your food for the day. Vegetarian options will be available. To register, send us your name, phone number, e-mail address, and vegetarian/carnivore preference. You can make your payment via PayPal (to deirdre@sacredmarks.com) or by sending a check to:Sacred Mark SanctuaryP.O. Box 433Frederick, MD 21705Sunday, October 28, noonPrivate Location in Frederick, MD
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September 10th, 2007

Hey, folks,Taylor and I had ordered some galley copies of Kink Magic: Sex Magic Beyond Vanilla* a while back for various pre-production purposes. Well, we have an extra one left over, so we're raffling it off!From now until November 30, 2007, everyone who (pre)orders a copy of Kink Magic from us will be entered in a drawing to win this rare galley--only two runs of galleys were printed, with a total of twelve in all. Two of them are staying in our personal collection, which means only ten total will be in circulation, including the giveaway. Each individual book ordered will mean one entry in the contest. The drawing will be done on December 1 at the book signing (details TBA) in Seattle, WA. So get your order in now to get a free chance to win a rare galley copy! (Those who have already preordered are automatically entered.)* NSFW, also just FYI we assume that if you click the links in this post you're of legal age to view it--no porn, but there is discussion of adult topics.
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September 5th, 2007

This month at PlayShop we'll be examining the concept of compression, both as a force in our lives as well as a force in our bdsm play. Please come prepared to compress and/or to be compressed in as many ways as you can think of. :).PlayShop is part ritual, part discussion group, part tantra puja, part class, part show-n-tell, part play party, part experimental laboratory. This series of events is an immersive introduction and experience in ritual BDSM sex magick. All genders and orientations are welcome.All experience levels welcome. If you're a beginner and would like to try some, come. If you're a seasoned magick practitioner, witch, shaman, priest, tantrika, or other ritual worker, and would like to figure out how to mix your skills with BDSM, please come. If you're a seasoned bdsm player and would like to know how to make your play more spiritual, purposeful, and/or meaningful, please come. If you're an experienced ritual magick BDSM practitioner, please come help create. If you'd just like to hang and hold space, please come.Bring your ritual kit, your toy bag, your drums, your excitement, your enthusiasm, and your partner. Don't fret if you're missing any of these items as we'll likely have enough to share. :-).http://teamnoir.name/Compression.htmlhttp://edges.biz
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August 14th, 2007

August 1st, 2007