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Hello Every one
01:15pm 24/06/2014
Shell posting in Trans BDSMI am looking for some one to take this over. I am not on here often and Really truly feel that this space needs some one who is here more often. Is there someone who would like to help with this?
Screwup:Bending the Bottom:gender flex in BDSM play, 1/9/09
11:38am 07/01/2009
screwupsf posting in Trans BDSMScrewup presents: Bending the Bottom: gender flex in BDSM play Friday, January 9th, 2009 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM Femina Potens, 2199 Market Street (at Sanchez Street), San Francisco Does your gender presentation vary by the roles that you play in BDSM? Are you a boy top and and a fierce femme bottom? Have you ever surprised yourself or others with a gendered bottom identity? Do you ever feel drawn to play in gender(s) outside of your usual comfort zones? Then this is the Screwup for you! Timnah will be presenting about playing with bottom spaces, and how that can intersect with gender expectations, perceptions, and presentations. Leading with her own experiences of playing in different bottom spaces - gendered and not - Timnah will facilitate a discussion about bottoming and gender expression. If time allows, we may expand the discussion to include how switches and tops experience this as well. Discussion is open to everyone open to learning and sharing on these topics. screwup is for trans people, genderqueers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held at Femina Potens gallery. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared... Femina Potens is wheelchair accessible, however the single gender-neutral bathroom is not. We apologize for any inconvenience that this may cause, and are looking for an accessible restroom in the vicinity. $0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers. Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests. Directions to Femina Potens The MUNI METRO LINES J,K,L,M,N, the F MUNI STREETCAR LINE, or MUNI BUS LINES 6, 7, 9, 10, 14, 21, 26, 47, 49, 66 and 71 all run within a few blocks of Femina Potens - many run within 1 block. Also, take BART (exit at SF Civic Center), then transfer to Muni metro (exit at Church Street) or F Muni streetcar line (exit at Church Street).
screwup:Swish goes the cane! 11/14, 7-9:30, San Francisco
09:02pm 06/11/2008
screwupsf posting in Trans BDSMNovember Screwup screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents... Swish goes the Cane Friday, November 14th, 2008 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM Femina Potens, 2199 Market Street (at Sanchez Street), San Francisco Canes can be a gentle sensory toy (really), a vicious form of punishment or just plain fun! Comes watch demos on various bodies and with various styles. Learn the basics in making, buying and using canes and best of all try out caning. A limited number of canes will be provided for use but if you have one please bring it. PARTICIPATION BY ALL IS ENCOURAGED. Workshop will be facilitated by theo, an ftm and former Pro-domme and fan of the canes for the past 15 years who will lead the workshop in techniques and creation of canes before opening it up for discussion and practice. Screwup is for all trans spectrum people, genderqueers, our friends and allies. $0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of renting the space, supplies and any flyers made. NO ONE is every turned about for not donating Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers. Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests. Femina Potens is wheelchair accessible but the bathroom is not. Directions to Femina Potens The MUNI METRO LINES J,K,L,M,N, the F MUNI STREETCAR LINE, or MUNI BUS LINES 6, 7, 9, 10, 14, 21, 26, 47, 49, 66 and 71 all run within a few blocks of Femina Potens - many run within 1 block. Also, take BART (exit at SF Civic Center), then transfer to Muni metro (exit at Church Street) or F Muni streetcar line (exit at Church Street). Please use public transportation - parking near Femina Potens is not easy.
Call for Bootblacks NYC!
02:03pm 19/09/2008
Brandon Riley posting in Trans BDSMHey all, Im helping a friend to get some bootblacks together to participate in NYLW (New York Leather Weekend).We still need some and Some More Bootblacks who are willing to donate their time and talents. Bootblacks will be working for tips!Bootblacking takes place on Saturday from 1-5 PM. If you work those 4 hours you will get a half comp to the event. If you are able to donate another 4 hours of volunteer time you will get a full comp.(event schedule is listed under the cut). There will also be bootblacking at the street fair on Sunday.Please let me know what you would like your hours to total up to, and let me know what your first choices (& etc) are.There's quite a few volunteers, so the earlier you respond, the better chance you have at getting the slot you want.Also, please note that there will be a volunteer orientation on October 4th for those that wish to attend. (optional, unless you're doing security)If your interested please leave a comment here or email the volunteer coordinator at nylw.volunteers at gmail dot com**( Volunteer ScheduleCollapse )**
Crap! >.
09:38pm 04/04/2008
Lilly Noodle posting in Trans BDSMNot sure where else to post this so i figured i would post it here...I was working on some homework for my Mistress, sorting though all the pictures i had just taken and instead of deleting a mistake, i deleted all the pictures. Mistress is going to be pissed!, there were some great pictures in there too. And i was being such a good girl too... *sigh*I do have one more chance to get pictures for her tonight though, but I will still have to explain why there is one set instead of two.*mutters and grumbles about how much it sucks that flash cards do not have an undelete option like a hard drive does*Love,Lilly A. Noodle, Queen Of The Waffle, Defender Of Toast=^_^=mood: numbnumb
Screwup:When Scenes go Bad!- 11/9, SF,CA
07:07pm 06/11/2007
screwupsf posting in Trans BDSMNovember screwup screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents... When Scenes Go Bad ! Friday, November 9, 2007 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM **Different location this month Femina Potens, 2199 Market Street (at Sanchez Street), San Francisco with Koen Baum Come discuss and get new ideas on how to handle scenes that go off course. Refresh the wisdom you already possess and recharge your confidence. Ask questions, share information. Koen is a licensed marriage family therapist working in San Francisco. He has been familiar with and has had knowledge of BDSM since 1982. He is a gender specialist and has worked with transgender, genderqueer, transsexual and intersexed folks for many years. He also specializes in couples therapy and communication and is a certified mediator. Screwup is for trannies, genderqueers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared... $0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms! Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers. Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests. Directions to Femina Potens The MUNI METRO LINES J,K,L,M,N, the F MUNI STREETCAR LINE, or MUNI BUS LINES 6, 7, 9, 10, 14, 21, 26, 47, 49, 66 and 71 all run within a few blocks of Femina Potens - many run within 1 block. Also, take BART (exit at SF Civic Center), then transfer to Muni metro (exit at Church Street) or F Muni streetcar line (exit at Church Street).Please use public transportation - parking near Femina Potens is not easy. If you do drive, please be considerate of Femina Potens' neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.
July screwup: Gender Play,7/13, 7-9:30pm, SF
02:54pm 06/07/2007
screwupsf posting in Trans BDSMscrewup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents: Gender PlayFriday, July 13, 2007 from 7:00 to 9:30 PMNew College of California in San Francisco, Room 23 (2nd Floor), 766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San FranciscoWe all say "Fuck gender!", but how to we play with gender when we fuck? Come to screwup for discussion, demos, and interactive excercises about gender play led by BigSockTramp and Tuesday Feral. Bring your psychic cocks, astral cunts, and whatever other accessories you may need for an imaginitve exploration of gender as a sex toy.screwup is for trans people, genderqueers and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 23 at the New College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.Directions to the New College of CaliforniaThe MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of the New College of California, many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California's neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.
HRT and S&M
04:13pm 13/05/2007
Jennifer posting in Trans BDSMHi, I'm Jennie, I'm a 39yo MtF ts and have just started hormone therapy about 3 weeks ago.I've been into S&M for quite a while, and I've earned a reputation of being a pain slut. It's always been real easy for me to tap into my endorphines when being flogged, and I get into a very euphoric state and will often giggle when being hit.Well, about a week ago or so I went to the local dungeon with my girlfriend. We started to play and while she was flogging me I was not able to get into my usual euphoric state. Intead I just go annoyed and got up in the middle of the scene, started bitching at my gf that she was doing it wrong, then stormed off to go sit in a corner by myself.After like an hour I had calmed down and was talking with my girlfriend. We decided that we would try again and just start off real light. I didn't let myself get annoyed, but still the flogging did nothing for me and I ended up stopping the scene early.I was trying to think what was wrong. Then I thought it must be the hormones.So now I'm wondering if I'm not going to enjoy s&m anymore while on hormones, or if maybe it was something else other than hormones, and whether or not I will enjoy being flogged again in the future.Is there anyone here who has had a simular experience like mine?-Jennie
Screwup this Friday May 11th, Flogging! SF, CA
06:18pm 10/05/2007
screwupsf posting in Trans BDSMMay screwupscrewup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents...Flogging? Yes, flogging, really!by DominaFriday, May 11, 2007 from 7:00 to 9:30 PMNew College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor), 766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San FranciscoWell, now you have a flogger and…what do you do with it?You might be surprised at the answers!! There are lots of things you can do with a flogger, and this class is going to show you exactly what those things are. We’re going to help you explore various flogging strokes, strike zones, ways to use a flogger sensually, warm ups, flogger materials and how to buy a flogger.We’ll teach you the gamut from nice to nasty as far as technique. And we’ll discuss positioning the bottom for each method.Bring a flogger if you have one. Domina will be bringing a few from her collection so you can see examples of well made equipment from different makers. So there will be a few available for borrowing.Since this is a workshop, everyone gets to feel it and to try it. Bring a partner, or match up with someone at the class.Domina, owner of the Frugal Domme Website, is a familiar sight in the Bay Area BDSM community. She started the Modesto Discussion Group, The Northern California Ladies Tea and Discussion Society, and several elists. She is an Emeritus member of the Dungeon Monitors Association Board of Directors, and teaches a lot of different classes in the bay area. She currently helps to organize the Petaluma Munch.She identifies as a bisexual dominant, and lives in the woods near Forestville with her husband Lee and three very dominant cats.screwup is for trans people, genderqueers and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks often go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.Directions to the New College of CaliforniaThe MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of the New College of California, many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California's neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.also check out screwup at screwup.infoand www.screwup.tribe.net