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I don't really plan on joining this community permanently, I just stumbled across it and wanted too leave my 2 cents since I shared many of same values and beliefs, but with a slightly different perspective now.

1 a) How old are you now? 24
1 b) Male or female? Female

2. (answer the one that applies) a) If unmarried, are you a virgin? No

3. What are/were your reasons for waiting? I waited too have sex till I was in a strong, loving relationship for over a year.

4. Does your faith play a factor in your decision? Would you wait even if you did not have this faith? I do have faith, but not ruled by it. Mostly my decision was based on safety reasons.

5a. Are you a complete virgin (never kissed or willfully engaged in any kind of sexual touching etc). No (was though until I meet my current boyfriend)
5b. Have you actually had the opportunity to go further than you have, had you chosen to do so? During the first part of our relationship I chose not to have sex, though the opportunity was there. And lemme tell you...temptation can be veeeery hard too fight off sometimes ^^

**6. Do you regret any of the physical involvement/lack thereof that you may have had?**My first "make-out" session went a little further than I probably should have, (ie: topless), but other than that, no.

**7. What are you waiting for (marriage, true love, a willing partner)?**True love, which I have achieved. Marriage is defiantly in our future.

**8. What do you feel is/was the hardest part of remaining true to your decision to wait? What would make it easier?**Before meeting my boyfriend, I had no temptations. I didn't even have many "urges" to have sex and even began to think that I never would. But then I meet my boyfriend and with the love I felt for him a physical love/relationship began and those "urges" finally came around. From there it became difficult because I wanted to share myself with him and feel all the pleasures that a relationship can bring, but I needed to make sure that it was indeed true love.

**9. If you could say one thing to older virgins out there, what would it be?**Nobody should regret being a virgin. I was embarrassed to first tell my boyfriend that I was one, but once I did he was ok with it. Shocked, yes...but in a good way (being that he was not a virgin when we meet). But he feels special to have meet someone willing too wait and be in a relationship that's not just physical.

**10. Tell us something about you (interests, beliefs, favo(u)rites) that will help us get to know you better.**Umm... I dunno. ^^; I loath these questions, lol.