O TÉRMINO DE UM RELACIONAMENTO AMOROSO: SENTIMENTOS PREDOMINANTES E IMPACTOS NA VIDA DIÁRIA APÓS A SEPARAÇÃO (original) (raw)

O TÉRMINO DE UM RELACIONAMENTO AMOROSO: SENTIMENTOS PREDOMINANTES E IMPACTOS NA VIDA DIÁRIA APÓS A SEPARAÇÃO

Separation as one of the most painful experiences in which a human being can go through, is a complex process lived in different stages and also in different levels, it means, into the secret thoughts of each member of the couple, into their dialogue and in the explicitness to the social context that surround them. For the author, studying loving separation means studying the death presence in life. This way, the current work focused on presenting the end of the loving relation process, identifying and analysing the predominant feeling experiences and impacts into the daily life after the break up in the adulthood life, searching for psychological and physical factors resulting from this condition. This study tried to investigate the possible differences and similarities of the emotional impacts caused by experience of separation, feelings, fantasies and defense mechanisms, as well as, the possible consequences in the relational and social life, of men and women, in order to understand the ways of coping in the separation process. Equally, knowing about the emotional aspects, fears, fantasies, desires, the defense mechanisms can assist in the understanding of the psychological aspects into the loving separation. A research was developed with individuals between 21 and 30 years old separated at present, whose facts were collected through semi-structured interview. This work was based on qualitative methodology, like that the discussion and the facts interpretation followed the psychoanalytical theoretical reference. The obtainable results showed that women experiment the separation process searching for isolation and mourning, while men search for social contact as a way to get rid of suffering caused by separation. Likewise men and women experiment mourning by separation but, through differential coping strategies that can be linked to the own expectation in relation to the gender.