Social Media as the Spatiotemporally Unconfined Cult of the Dead (original) (raw)

DEATH IN THE DIGITAL ERA: GRIEVING ON FACEBOOK

Abstract: This paper seeks to highlight that the practices of mourning online are not so strange as one might think, because historically, mourning has been practiced on a public level quite often. Think, for example, of the televised, public memorials of famous persons who have died- from royalty such as Princess Diana, to pop star legends such as Michael Jackson- and the outpouring of grief that occurred as a result of their death. Using the media analysis tools offered by Marshall McLuhan, the author argues that viewing mourning on a public forum like the internet as inappropriate, odd, or off-putting can be seen as a symptom of still adopting the rationale from a previous era, in which mourning strictly entails private expressions of grief and only the company of the immediate family. This old rationale is in line with Freud’s cannon, especially concerning his essay "Mourning and Melancholia" (1917), which originally described healthy mourning as a process in which the mourner must detach themselves from the deceased and essentially replace them and move on. Thoughts of these kind which belong to and are applicable in the previous era are no longer coherent. This paper will discuss practices of mourning in the digital era so as to better understand the motivations and potential benefits such practices may have on the individual. Specifically, the author discusses conceptions of mourning as offered by Butler, (2001) Walter (1996), and Klass, Silverman and Nickman (2006), who emphasize healthy practices of grief to be perpetual, allowing the bereaved to incorporate the deceased within his or her ongoing life.

Does the Internet Change How We Die and Mourn? Overview and Analysis

OMEGA--Journal of Death and Dying, 2012

The article outlines the issues that the internet presents to death studies. Part 1 describes a range of online practices that may affect dying, the funeral, grief and memorialization, inheritance and archaeology; it also summarizes the kinds of research that have been done in these fields. Part 2 argues that these new online practices have implications for, and may be illuminated by, key concepts in death studies: the sequestration (or separation from everyday life) of death and dying, disenfranchisement of grief, private grief, social death, illness and grief narratives, continuing bonds with the dead, and the presence of the dead in society. In particular, social network sites can bring dying and grieving out of both the private and public realms and into the everyday life of social networks beyond the immediate family, and provide an audience for once private communications with the dead.

Death in digital spaces: social practices and narratives

International Conference on Cultural Informatics, Communication & Media Studies, 2020

Purpose: In post-modern society, Internet and social media mediate between daily life processes such as death, establishing new forms of social interaction among social actors and creating new norms. The creation of digital cemeteries and the usage of the services they offer by Internet users, the conversion of a deceased person’s Facebook profile into a profile “Remembering” or the replacement of a user's profile photo by a black background in cases of grieving, demonstrate emphatically the new dimensions that the event of death takes on Internet and social media, leading to the building of a public experience, despite the fact that in Western societies death is considered to be a private affair.Methods: This paper based on an in-depth review of the literature deals with death as an event mediated by new technologies, since Internet and social media have given the opportunity for new narratives about the experience of death and have contributed to the emergence of new social pr...

To Mourn, To Re-imagine without Oneself: Death, Dying, and Social Media/tion

Catalyst: Feminism, Theory, Technoscience [Special issue on Illness Narratives], 2018

This paper incorporates and reflects on Steinberg's particular vantage as a dying person whose blog engages the transforming ecologies of mourning and the place(s) of dying in the emergent spaces of social media. The paper homes in on the distinction between the repudiation of death and the repudiation of mourning in the collective project of " re-imagining without oneself, " that is, of re-imagining another life, another death, beyond the liberal coordinates of a " you " and a " me. " As an " intermediating " place, we argue that the blog serves as a virtual portal that both problematizes and (re)mediates the personal and the political. In so doing, the paper touches on key feminist political questions concerning bodily self-sovereignty; the broader racialized, classed, and gendered cultural imaginary; and

Death and Digi-memorials: Perimortem and Postmortem Memory Sharing through Transitional Social Networking

Thanatos, 2014

Impending death and the event of passing can leave one in a state beyond bereavement, leading to a penchant for rationalizing the entire process. Increasingly people turn to social media not only as a community of mourners who come together to share their grief, but also to create chronicles of hope for the deceased's life-before-death through acts of sharing emotional narratives, prayers of faith, as well as relational visuals awaiting the passing away. These digital networking communities have displayed the power to hold onto the fleeting. Social media possess an inherent quality of conceptual permanence that make them transitional public conduits for talking about the possibility of miracles to halt imminent death, fluidly followed by discussions of the transience of life.

Living in the digital ether: The evolution of bereavement and abolishment of death in a technological society.

Death seems to be a permanent and unchanging event, when one's life draws to an end the lives of others are forever changed. When one thinks of the funeral they think of black hats, coffins, and of old rituals. It would seem foreign and inappropriate somehow to involve computers and technology in the death industry. Throughout this essay, one will see a brief introduction to social media, a look at historical rituals of the Judeo-Christian funeral rites and lastly the benefits of social media to mourners. This essay hopes to not only explore the evolution of death and bereavement, but to provide supporting evidence and proof that social media websites aid in the brief and process. Using Durkheim's social solidarity and Goffman's impression management, hopefully these will become clearer to the reader as they progress. Keywords: death, rituals, funeral, social media, facebook, evolution, impressions.

Remaining friends with the dead : emerging grieving practices on social networking sites

2013

How do we mourn the dead and proceed with our lives when the dead do not absent themselves from our everyday world, but remain integrated into our community of friends on social networking sites? This paper explores the changes occurring in the ways in which we experience online the deaths of our loved ones, namely, a collapse between public and private modes of grief. The changes under examination include the changing perception of death, identity creation and ownership, the role of the bereaved, theoretical/therapeutic approaches to grieving, the function of ritual, and commemoration of the dead. Questions this paper addresses include: to whom do the dead belong? Does death become banal when it is incorporated into everyday life? How can a ritual reflect a passage from one state of being to another when you are part of a system that does not recognize a change in status? v Table of Contents INTRODUCTION 1

Beyond the Grave: Facebook as a site for the expansion of death and mourning

2013

Online identities survive the deaths of those they represent, leaving friends and families to struggle with the appropriate ways to incorporate these identities into the practices of grief and mourning, raising important questions. How are practices of online memorialization connected to conventional rituals of grief and mourning? What is the role of online digital identity post-mortem? How do trajectories of death and dying incorporate both online and offline concerns?

“You are Dead, but You are Not”: Social medium (Facebook) is the message in grieving and continuing bonds

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Today, one may no longer alive but his social networking sites (SNS) account will still live on. Empirical studies on death and SNS started since 2004 covering issues on grief, bereavement, mourning, relational continuity functions of SNS, and digital legacy. Majority of them applied content and discourse analyses on SNS messages directed to or related to the deceased. Applying McLuhan’s aphorism medium is the message, researcher focused on the interplay among forms and functions of Facebook (FB) as a medium and message that mediates grief and the bereaved persons who are communicators that decided to grieve on FB. This research adopts grounded theory approach where in- depth interviews with 10 bereaved persons who maintain relational continuity with their deceased loved ones through FB were conducted. The conclusions are drawn to prove that bereaved users preferred to engage in a transcoporeal mediated communication with deceased for continuing bonds due to four main reasons – the ...

E-(ternal) grieving: The digitalization and redefining of death and loss on social media

Simulacra, 2023

The practice of grieving from a socio-cultural perspective is never an impersonal matter. The attachment to different organized values and habits prevents the individual from determining the attitudes and emotions that must be shown when grieving. This fact raises the question of the place of traditional mourning practices in society amidst the invasion of new technologies, i.e. social media. The study uses qualitative methods to analyze some Instagram content related to mourning the loss of several public figures in Indonesia. In the case studies examined, the contribution of big technology gives us autonomy, but it is only a phantasmagorical one. Ultimately, our identities will continue to control what we do in cyberspace and in the natural world. Social media is only an alternative space for the manifestation of correlated socio-cultural values, including the implementation of norms in mourning. Nevertheless, the freshness offered in the practice of mourning on social media is that people can now immerse themselves in a longer liminal period and preserve the communication and social status of the deceased with the available function of perpetual mourning. The results of the study should stimulate further research on how technology can shape society in the digital age.