Semi-arranged marriages and dowry ambivalence: Tensions in the changing landscape of marriage formation in South Asia - PubMed (original) (raw)

Semi-arranged marriages and dowry ambivalence: Tensions in the changing landscape of marriage formation in South Asia

Nadia G Diamond-Smith et al. Cult Health Sex. 2020 Sep.

Abstract

Marriage is a point of change in young people's lives, especially in parts of the world that place high value on it, such as in South Asian countries including Nepal. However, marriage practices are changing, with a move towards more love marriage; this is likely to have important implications on women's status and agency, household and couple dynamics, and mental and physical health. The aim of this paper is to describe how changing marriage formation patterns and traditional practices such as co-residence and dowry are intersecting and impacting relationships post-marriage. In-depth qualitative interviews took place with 20 intact triads of newly married women, their husbands and their mothers-in-law, in one district of Nepal in 2017. Many marriages remain arranged; however, couples often talk or meet before marriage and feel that they are able to build a foundation of love before marrying. Access to technology facilitates this practice, although some couples are reluctant to admit their communication, suggesting stigma about this practice. Husbands have growing ambivalence about dowry, leading to confusion and negatively impacting on relationships post-marriage. A clash of traditional and modern ideas and practices is occurring in Nepal, influencing newly married women's household status and relationship quality, and potentially impacting women's health.

Keywords: Nepal; Semi-arranged marriage; communication; dowry; relationships.

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