| 1:24 pm - a kiss of forever |
 vaginkhram  The moment I saw her enter the classroom I felt a wave of freshness pass through me as she walked and sat infront of me. I was so lost in my thoughts about her that I didn't realize the teacher calling me. I came back to reality when I heard a bang on my desk. There I saw her looking at me, the most beautiful hazel color eyes that were so mesmerizing that I didn't hear a word the teacher was telling me. The words were just flying over as I stared into her eyes. I was no more in control of reality I felt so light headed and full of emotions. I said, "Ouch!" the teacher had slightly hit me on my arm. That's when I realized that I was acting stupid. My first impression spoilt. The last bell of the day rang and everyone started to leave. However, the teacher held me back for misbehaving in class as she put it. I was so stuck in detention, but this time it felt good coz I was so lost in my thoughts again about her, that I didn't find the detention time wasting or boring. After an hour of daydreaming, I left the college premises heading to my car. There I saw her waiting for someone. I got in my car and drove near her asking her if she needed a lift home. She agreed on it. She got in and I headed to the address she mentioned. While driving we introduced ourselves and got to know her a bit. I dropped her at her place. She invited me inside, but I refused as I told her, "Its' getting late and I need to get home." We said our friendly goodbye, thanks, as we shook each other's hand and drove off. At night, I couldn't sleep, I was thinking about her. Her eyes, personality, face, style, hand shake, cuteness etc. She is so beautiful I thought only if she was one of my teddy bear I could cuddle her in my arms while going to sleep. I don't know when I fell asleep, coz I woke up late in the morning for college. I hurried up, got dressed gather all my stuff and headed for my car. "Damn!" I said. My car tires had flattened out. Therefore, the only choice that I had was to walk to college and be late. As the saying goes, "It's better to be late then to remain absent." I reached college half an hour late. It was my luck, the teacher hadn't arrived yet so I was safe. I saw Kiara (the same beautiful girl) calling me. I took a seat next to her and we got busy chatting. We got to know each other a lot better as days passed by. We became good to best friends. We talked about everything (personal, public, social etc) and did everything together. We never got tired of each other, as there was always something to do when we were together. As we were getting to know each other, my feelings for her were getting stronger. By now, I already knew she was the only one for me. I didn't know how to tell coz I was scared what if I loose her forever, as she was straight, but she still didn't know that I was a lesbian (one secret that I kept from her). Read the rest of the story at kategrace the free lesbian dating romance website (comment on this) |
| Wednesday, November 17th, 2010 |
| 11:24 pm - hi |
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| Sunday, August 22nd, 2010 |
| 10:02 pm - man, this is so damn empty |
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| Monday, August 16th, 2010 |
| 4:15 pm - Absolut Opposes "Labeling" Of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Minorities With Their Vodka No |
 tipsykitten Absolut Vodka is introducing limited edition naked bottles that do not feature the Absolut label or logo to mark the launch of its latest campaign In An ABSOLUT World There Are No Labels, an initiative which challenges prejudice against LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) minorities.Absolut wants to challenge labels and prejudice to make the world more diverse, vibrant and respectful. You will only find a discreet and easily removed sticker with the campaign manifesto on the bottle. This will encourage you to discard your labels and look beyond the obvious... read more at my bisexual dating bisexual stories blog (comment on this) |
| Tuesday, March 4th, 2008 |
| 10:34 am - Sexual World Records.....And you thought you were good |
 kasidie Sexual World RecordsMost Ejaculations for a Male in One Hour...Sixteen._He would have gone for 17, but his balls imploded._Most Orgasms for a Female in One Hour...134._Does the same woman hold the record for most faked orgasms...mmmm?_Farthest recorded Distance of a female ejaculation (a.k.a. 'Squirting')...9 feet, 10 inches._She's tried a career as a fire-fighter... But too many people kept burning down their houses on purpose._Longest Continuous Masturbation Session...Female: 6 hours, 30 minutes. Male: 8 hours, 30 minutes. Both records were set at the annual San Francisco "Masturbate-a-thon" to raise money for The Center For Sex and Culture._Talk about "beating" the record!_Oldest Sex Toy...An eight inch long stone phallus dated to be about 28,000 years old, was found by German archeologists in the Hohle Fels Cave near Ulm. Scientists believe it may well have been used as a sex aid by its Ice Age makers._28,000 years old? Most of our sex toys break after six months!_To read the rest of the article CLICK HERE (1 comment | comment on this) |
| Thursday, January 17th, 2008 |
| 10:57 am - 100 Ways to Tell if you're a Swinger |
| kasidie 1. You get really tired of not making it to McDonalds before they quit serving breakfast Sunday morning (on your way home).2. You're at the market, and the only things in your basket are condoms, breath mints and Red Bull.3. On vacation you set aside time to stage a bunch of photos that are acceptable to show to your family.4. You buy lap dances for your wife... And vice versa.5. Your sexual fantasies never last very long... Because they keep coming true!6. At your "normal" parties no one can go into the basement because you're afraid someone will notice the sex-swing.7. You know exactly which of your friends are allergic to latex.8. You start having withdrawals after two days without internet access.9. The movie "Swingers" was a huge disappointment to you.10. You've closed your e-mails with "Bi Bi".To see the rest of the list visit Kaside, A Lifestyle Magazine, For Swingers, By Swingers: Kasidie.com (1 comment | comment on this) |
| Sunday, September 23rd, 2007 |
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| Thursday, February 1st, 2007 |
| 6:23 pm - I'm new.... |
 strawberry83 01 Name: Ginny02 Location: Chicago03 Marital Status: Married, Open, Bisexual04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience?Yes, several.05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle?As long as I can remember, most of my relationships have been open, and I always liked girls and boys06 Where Do You Meet People?Mostly the internet. Some at school (Columbia College) some at conventions (Windycon/Capricon). Used to at Rocky Horror.07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?The freedom. I get to express myself sexually.08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?Some friends, yes. Family? Of course not.09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?I like to meet them, talk a little bit. We're very low pressure so if nothing happens, it's not a big deal. Usually, I like the other couple to make the first moves but, I prefer the woman to since she's usually more perceptive to when I'm receptive to move to the next step than her husband is.10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?Extremely important.11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?Usually not too long. I like to get a jist of who they are. If things are right, or if there's a certain purpose to the meeting (like a swing club), it may be the first time.12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?Communication and Honesty about everything.No emotional relationships. (4 comments | comment on this) |
| Thursday, January 11th, 2007 |
| 6:05 pm - Ongoing antics |
 mfm_anon Hi everyone! I'm a 22/f/Chicago and have been having mfm threesomes for about six months. Anyone interested in reading about the experiences I've had, check out my journal (warning: explicit content). I used to blog on MySpace and had many people tell me they found it helpful to read about somebody else's experiences with mfms, but unfortunately don't update there due to the solicitations that started pouring in. Check me out or not, but have fun and be safe!mfm (comment on this) |
| Monday, August 15th, 2005 |
| 5:43 pm - new here... |
 gods_mistake hey there. i am brand new to this community. i just wanted to thow out a little information for others in the community:i am a 20 yr old female and my boyfriend is 30. we are both bisexual and have never actually been part of the swingers "scene", although we have both seperatly had 3 ways a-plenty. we have a very healthy sex life and would like to find either a male or female, or another couple (preferebly between our ages) to have some fun with. i am not quite sure really what we're looking for, but we are willing to try some things out. basically, we want to see if swinging is something we would enjoy. anyways, here's a picture of us from a toga party we had in july: we live in columbus, ohio if anyone is interested. (7 comments | comment on this) |
| Monday, June 6th, 2005 |
| 4:46 am - Hello! |
 joe_fisher I will make this quick as it is sooooo late, ahem I mean early :)Me and my wife are polyamorus, we are married and she has a boyfriend named john, he has been and becomes evermore a great additional to our lives, and we are even considering all living together in the new home that I am building. I have believed in open and honest relationships since I was very young. We live in northern indiana, and I would love to meet other couples/people who share similar outlooks on life, I hope we have great conversations in the future!respectfully yours, (comment on this) |
| Sunday, April 17th, 2005 |
| 4:54 pm - More Threesome Fun |
 abigfreak To start this off I should give a little background info. I was dating a girl, we'll say Anne to make it easy, for about 2 years. We ended up breaking up but remain friends and are still sexually active together. While dating we played with the idea of having a MMF threesome. We had plans once, but I backed out because I was afraid I would be too jealous. After we broke up I asked my buddy, we'll say Jeff, at one point if he'd be interested in it. He politely passed saying he had done something like that before and didn't really care for it. Just for your info we are both completely straight.Yesterday I had friends over, including both Anne and Jeff. Well, everyone else left and it was just the three of us. To make a long story short we ended up having a threesome that included pretty much everything you can do except DP only because she hasn't had anal yet, something i'm sure we'll do eventually. I mostly liked it, I know she loved it. I won't lie, I was a little jealous at times, but all in all it was a fun experience.I've talked to him since, asking if it was more of a one time thing, or something that may happen again. He said he wasn't sure, but it may happen again if he was drunk enough again. Like I said, I know she had fun, and I enjoyed it for the most part. I'd like for this to happen again but I have a few fears. One, is that this is one of my good friends and don't want anything to happen to our friendship. Another is that Anne and Jeff may develop a connection. Right now it's purely sexual which is how i'd like it to stay. But, I don't know where else to look for guys that want to join us. We are under 21 and don't go to bars or clubs or anything, which I'd be wary of anyways because we don't know if the person is clean and such. Any ideas, suggestions, or comments?One other thing, I would also be interested in having a FFM threesome with Anne and another girl. No one in particular, I just think it would be fun to try. When Anne and I originally talked about the MMF threesome she did say that if we did it that it didn't mean I'd get one too. Do you think I should bring it up again, or just forget it? (comment on this) |
| Thursday, March 17th, 2005 |
| 9:05 am |
 raina 01 Name: Laurena 02 Location: Rapid City SD03 Marital Status: Married, open/poly04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience? several05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle? we have been married since June 2004, we spoke about women joining us and had have several experiences in the last yeat06 Where Do You Meet People?Work, *hah*, i know its sad. but since we moved to SD we dont talk to alot of people, the ones we have met with and discussed possibilities were co workers07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?Watching my husband enjoy another woman. As well as that the female body. 08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?Yes09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?Bring them home or out for coffee and talk with them, discussing what would happen, and going from there once we know them better,10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?Very, Very, Very important. The women we have been with. weve always used protection. As his wife, im somewhat protective. I want to be the only one with child.(i currently am with our first) and i do not want to bring any diseases into our family.11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?It has happened quickly before, some ended well, and we still meet with them, a couple ended with them not enjoying the experience. 12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?1 My husband is number 1, unless the unexpected happens and love becomes involved. This is purely sexual. I am his wife. 2. there are no other men. im not interested in another man, nor does he want another around.3. we are rather strange, but will not do anything that poses a potential risk. I am pregnant and i will not do anything to pose hazard to our baby. 4. Be open about what you like and dislike. If any problems come up please voice them. (comment on this) |
| Thursday, February 10th, 2005 |
| 5:46 pm |
 volta_girl GLBT Valentine's Sweetheart GaylaFriday, February 11, 20057pm-11pm$10 at the doorUnitarian-Universalist Church of Bloomington2120 N. Fee Lane, Bloomington, INSponsored by UU InterweaveAll are welcome to attend the GLBT Valentine's Sweetheart Gayla. Takeyour sweetie to a special night out on the town! Don't have one?This could be your lucky night! No dress code required but you'llwant to dress nice for your special 'souvenir' photo. Music and DJ will beprovided by a All Star Entertainment. Light snacks and non-alcoholic beverages will be served. Free childcare from 7pm to 9pm! For tickets or other information please contact Renee at 812-219-0371 or uuinterweave@gmail.com (comment on this) |
| Thursday, December 30th, 2004 |
| 5:37 pm |
 awibs 01 Name: TC02 Location: Andersonville03 Marital Status: engaged, poly-amorous (love lots of people), poly-sexual (sexual with lots of peopel), and potentially open to poly-gamy (married to more than one person) some day04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience? oh gosh yes. 05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle? since i was about 13. though we didn't have words for it, that's just how the crowd at my high school was, and what my behavior always tended towards. "mono-gamy" in the literal sense of "one spouse" wasn't a forgien concept to me, but the ideas of "one sexual partner" "mono-sexuality" and "one person you love" "mono-amory" were respectively each more mindblowing than the last.06 Where Do You Meet People?through school (Columbia Chicago) theater, renn faire (Bristol), community (Tiamat IC) friends of friends, and once in a blue moon okcupid.com07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?"The kick comes from people, buddy boy."08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?My friends are my family, especially with the community and all. As far as my genetic relatives, most don't even know I'm engaged yet. What can I say, they're Shi'ite Muslim.09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?Naturally, incidentally, after-the-fact, like through common interests. By doing things like working on shows or the community together. I can't stand the whole "dating" and "bars" and "small talk" crap. If we don't have some project in common to get together and work on (granted this can be as simple as a desire to go to the same resteraunt) I probably won't bother. 10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?To paraphrase Maureen Johnson Smith (a Heinlein charecter, some may know her as Lazarus' mother), "Condoms are all very well and good, but saftey really comes down to being exceedingly fussy about one's bedmates. There are many nasty things I could catch through my mouth just as easily as down below, and that I would bed a man without kissing him? Unthinkable."11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?Whenever it smells right, be that the first night or not for years.12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?1.) Hypercareful of disease.2.) No new relationship shall be pursued if it intentionally detracts from any existing relationship3.) Spiral and I will never force the other to sleep alone.breathe deep seek peace (1 comment | comment on this) |
| Thursday, September 9th, 2004 |
| 9:06 pm - I know it is off topic but... |
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| Wednesday, September 8th, 2004 |
| 5:30 am - My Intro, Hi... |
 jatropheus 01 Name: Bill, but my online name almost everywhere is Jatropheus.02 Location: Joliet, ILL03 Marital Status: Married, open/poly04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience? not yet, maybe someday05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle? (What time is it?) We've been open but have not been doing anything about/with it except very, very rarely (last time was 6 years ago) but only recently started talking about polyamory and meeting people**06 Where Do You Meet People?**We don't, really... yet... I feel like a horn-dog for it, but I'd like to, any suggestions? **07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?**Learning, exploring, expanding, evolving... knowing that we will never get bored, and that minor infatuations will never destroy what we have and love out of sexual tension, plus some of our tastes vary from each others'.**08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?Some friends are, none of my family09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?**I have never intentionally met someone new, even when I was single. I tried some dating service type things years ago and found them... distasteful.**10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?**Very, paramount, exceptionally and exceedingly. I would like to be with a man for long enough to know that it's safe (sorry to be graphic, finding no other way to say) to swallow. **11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?**Not very, we would have to get to know each other, and I would have to know that it isn't a fling... I am old fashioned in odd ways. Each to his/her own, I'm certainly not going to judge others, but I'm hypercritical as hell of myself. **12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?**1. My Wife and my family are my life. If someone tries to force a wedge between us or play games with or endanger that in any way, that's a deal breaker and a prompt parting of ways.2. Everyone involved must be aware, especially spouses. I will not take kindly to being the other man.3. No children, animals, scat, "watersports", hard drugs, disease risk (that means safe sex only) no serious or permanent damage or pain related stuff in general that isn't discussed fully, lines and safewords determined beforehand. 4. No bondage until I know them very, very well, which means after some more vanilla or less restrained play, probably.5. (Don't I just suck? Well, I sort of do, at that...) My ethics and morals, warped though they may be, are very important to me, so things must go slowly, and I must ask my Love about anything first. Wow, number three could be stretched into six, and then we have ten commandments... how sad. Thanks for reading it, and I look forward to meeting, learning about and from, and maybe even meating some of you. Have Fun!current mood:  awake (comment on this) |
| Wednesday, August 11th, 2004 |
| 11:16 am - How to Begin a Healthy Poly Relationship |
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| Friday, August 6th, 2004 |
| 11:51 am - My Info |
minofsin06 01 Name: Min of Sin02 Location: Chicago03 Marital Status: Engaged, poly04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience? Several05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle?We've had an open relationship from almost day one, but have made the transition to poly in the last couple of years.06 Where Do You Meet People?Online, chance encounters.......07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?The freedom to explore all aspects of our sexuality, both together and seperate, and the ability to be totally honest about wants and desires.08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?Some friends are, none of my family09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?Depends. Varies from situation to situation.10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?Very11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?It I/we click, it depends on the situation.12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?Many. The most important -- recoginze my primary relationship. I also have a very low tolerance for jealously and/or possessiveness.current mood:  contemplative (5 comments | comment on this) |
| Tuesday, August 3rd, 2004 |
| 10:03 am - intro |
| misszoe 01 Name: Zoe02 Location: Columbus, ohio03 Marital Status: Open but we come as a pair. 04 Have You Ever Had A Swinging/Swapping/Threesome/Orgy Experience? yeah, last weekend was the latest one. 05 How Long Have You Been In The Lifestyle?a little while although we havent had many experiences together06 Where Do You Meet People?so far just friends but anyone wants to give sugestions... 07 What Do You Enjoy Most About What You Do?watching others orgasm, trying everything once, watching my husband have sex with another girl08 Are Your Family And Friends Aware Of This Part Of Your Life?friends yes, family no. My family does not even know that I am bi.09 How Do You Like To Meet With People?drinks, talking , casual, get to know ya see if we click10 How Important Is Safe Sex With You?the most important thing! 11 How Quickly Would You Sleep With A Couple (or Third Person)?Depends on the vibe. If everyone seems into it then you can take or come home with me on the first date.12 What Types Of Boundaries Do You Have?just that we come as a package. (comment on this) |