17 Best Courses for Relationship & Couples Counseling (original) (raw)

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""Over the course of our lives, we will have countless relationships, some deep and lasting and others fleeting.

Maintaining a healthy and satisfying relationship is not always smooth sailing, and most of the time, accountability for relationship problems does not lie solely with one person.

Relationship and couples counselors offer guidance and support to empower couples, families, and intimate partners to find a resolution to their relationship roadblocks, which can be an extremely helpful and healing process.

Are you considering a career as a relationship counselor, or do you want to build your relationship counseling skills to apply in your current work?

In this article, we’ll run through a variety of courses and degree programs in relationship and couples counseling to help you figure out what’s right for you.

Before you continue, we thought you might like to download our five positive psychology tools for free. These detailed, science-based exercises will help you or your clients build healthy, life-enriching relationships.

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Training in Couples & Relationship Counseling

Conflict is a normal part of our social interactions and exists in almost every relationship we have. We can express differences of opinion, bicker, and even argue without fundamentally damaging the overall relationship.

But sometimes, the source of conflict or stress in a relationship is persistent, harmful, or reflects deeper issues that need to be addressed. Navigating through these problems, such as after a loss, infidelity, or significant life event, can be difficult if you’re not seeing eye-to-eye with your loved one.

For many people, it can be incredibly helpful to speak with an impartial person who can provide guidance and support to work through relationship problems, even if the solution is ending the relationship.

The path to becoming a relationship and couples counselor may look different depending on where you live, but in general, relationship and couples counselors are highly specialized, licensed mental health professionals with training in individual, couples, and family therapies (McDowell, 2018).

According to Carlson and Dermer (2017; p. xliv), “Marriage, family, and couples therapists provide preventative, developmental, educational, and therapeutic interventions,” which is a pretty tall order.

Couples and relationship counselors come from a diverse range of backgrounds, and a range of professionals can provide relationship and couples counseling, including (McDowell, 2018):

Qualifications of a Relationship Therapist

Qualifications Of A Relationship TherapistTo start a career in couples and relationship counseling, an undergraduate degree in psychology, mental health, sociology, or a similar field is the first qualification you’ll need (McDowell, 2018).

Counselors then move to a graduate degree program and complete a master’s degree (typically two to three years) in a relevant field. You can also choose to follow a doctoral program, which normally takes between three and five years, or a clinical training program, for three to four years (American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, n.d.).

In the United States, you need a license to be able to practice, but the criteria differ depending on the state you live in (McDowell, 2018). Generally, after you’ve acquired an accredited qualification, you need to have two years of supervised clinical experience before being eligible for licensure (American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, n.d.).

You can obtain a license through a state licensing exam or the national exam from the Association of Marital and Family Therapy Regulatory Boards (American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, n.d.). In some states, you can apply for certification from the National Board of Certified Counselors, which is considered equivalent to licensure (McDowell, 2018).

To hold on to your license, many states require you to top up your education and training annually (McDowell, 2018).

9 Relationship & Couples Counseling Courses

Even if you’re not headed for a career as a licensed relationship counselor, completing a course in this line of work may still be useful.

Many helping professionals wish to enhance their skills in relationship counseling to feel more equipped to manage complex interpersonal dynamics when working with more than one client at a time. Completing a relationship counseling course can also contribute to your continuing professional development hours.

We’ve listed a variety of course options below that differ in length, price, and commitment. All courses can be completed online or virtually.

Gottman Method Training

Gottman

The Gottman Institute is a world-renowned training facility for marriage and couples counseling founded by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, who together hold extensive experience in the research and clinical sides of relationship counseling.

The Institute provides a selection of accredited training programs online, virtually, and in person.

There are no entry requirements, but the course would suit social science researchers and those working in helping professions.

Level 1 training is required to be eligible.

As well as completing levels 1 and 2, you’ll need a master’s degree, doctorate, or be currently completing a mental health-related graduate program.

There are some significant entry requirements, including a minimum of 1,000 hours of experience of graduate-level relationship therapy, completion of level 3, and courses in Treating Affairs and Trauma, and Couples and Addiction Recovery.

Find out more on their website.

Couples Therapy – A Practical Masterclass Online, Human Givens College

Human Givens College

If you want to get a flavor of relationship counseling with a quick, hands-on course, Human Givens College offers a one-day online workshop in couples therapy and welcomes people from helping professions or anyone interested in learning about brief solution-focused therapy.

Among many topics, you’ll learn about the best ways to create rapport with couples in therapy, how to build empathy, and how to structure therapeutic interventions. The course counts as six hours of continuing professional development.

Find out more on their website.

Certificate in Couple/Relationship Therapy, The Grove Practice

the grove

If you want to invest a bit more time into training, this foundational eight-day course is aimed at qualified counselors, psychotherapists, and psychologists who wish to develop their therapeutic skills in couples/relationship counseling contexts.

There are taught and skills-based elements to the course, amounting to 50 hours of continuous professional development. The course is available both online via Zoom and in person.

Some course topics include:

Find out more on their website.

Practitioner Certificate in Contemporary Intimate Partner Therapy, Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology

CICS

This 100% online course is suitable for qualified and practicing psychologists, psychotherapists, and counselors.

The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology recognizes that many clients seeking intimate partner therapy may be multiple-partnered people involved in consensually non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships, challenging the outdated perspective that intimate relationships only exist between two people.

The course amounts to 142 hours of e-Learning modules and live skills practice sessions. Some core modules include Theories of Love and Relationships and Family Law and Principles and Practices of Contemporary Intimate Partner Therapy.

Find out more on their website.

Diploma Course in Relationship Counseling, Udemy

Udemy

If you want to explore theories around relationship counseling without spending too much money, this online course from Udemy may be a good introduction.

There are no entry requirements for this course, but it may be particularly useful for people with a counseling background who wish to develop their expertise in working with people. The course includes video modules and a training manual, covering topics like Roles within Conflict, Working Together, Patterns, and Overcoming Blocks. The course is accredited by the Complementary Therapists Accredited Association.

Find out more on their website.

Post-Master’s Certificate in Couples Therapy, Ackerman Institute for The Family

Ackerman Institute for The Family

This advanced certificate program is designed for mental health professionals looking to deepen their expertise in working with couples. It comprises two 10-week modules—one delivered in person and one online—that can be taken individually or as part of the full certificate.

Module 1 centers on an integrative roadmap for transforming entrenched relationship dynamics. Participants will learn how to navigate common challenges such as emotional reactivity, power imbalances, sexuality, infidelity, and cultural difference.

Module 2 builds on this foundation. It’s taught by a rotating faculty of leading experts and covers pressing issues in contemporary couples work, including trauma, neurobiology, EFT techniques, and relational resilience.

Each module offers 30 CE credits. To enroll in the full certificate program, applicants must hold a master’s degree and be working with couples in clinical practice.

Find out more on their website.

8 Degree Programs to Consider

If you’re serious about a career as a licensed relationship counselor, a degree program could be a better option for you. It’s typical for a degree program to include a practicum (client work) and an internship alongside taught components.

When choosing a program, it’s important to look at whether it’s accredited by a recognized institution. Accreditation essentially means the course syllabus integrates the values and ethical and professional standards of a particular governing body.

Many degree programs provide specific modules in relationship counseling while also offering more foundational psychology courses that are important for working with clinical assessments, diagnosing psychological disorders, and making sure your practice is evidence based.

Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy, National University

National University LogoThis was the first distance-learning degree to be accredited by the Commission on Accreditation for Marriage and Family Therapy Education (COAMFTE). The syllabus covers core areas of human development, marriage and family therapy, marriage and family studies, professional studies, and research.

The program totals 33 months and includes practicum internship placements. Among several entry requirements, you need to have a bachelor’s degree from an accredited institution.

Find out more on their website.

MEd/EdS and MAE/EdS in Marriage and Family Counseling, University of Florida

University of FloridaThis master’s program provides students with the fundamental skills to become registered interns and, following two years of clinical experience, gain licensure as a marriage and family therapist or mental health counselor in Florida.

Students completing a thesis will receive a Master of Arts instead of a Master of Education.

The course takes two to three years to complete and advocates an ‘eco-systemic approach,’ where students become skilled in managing solution-focused dialogue between couples and family members. The degree comprises clinical (e.g., diagnosis and treatment of mental disorders) and counseling courses, as well as a practicum, internship, and supervision.

Find out more on their website.

Master of Relational and Family Therapy, University of Guelph

University of Guelph logoThis two-year, full-time master’s program in Ontario offers immersive clinical training in systemic and relational psychotherapy. Designed to prepare students for registration, the program integrates theory and practice through both coursework and supervised clinical work.

Students complete seven graduate-level courses—covering trauma-informed practice, sociocultural humility, gender and sexuality, and more—while undertaking a five-semester internship placement. All clinical training takes place at a purpose-built facility equipped with video capture for real-time feedback and supervision.

Find out more on their website.

Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy, Capella University

Capella

This graduate degree program is accredited by COAMFTE.

The course is delivered online and in person, and the syllabus comprises 16 courses, 2 residencies, and an internship.

Some examples of modules include Foundations of Couple and Family Therapy, Professional Ethics in Marriage and Family Therapy, and Social Justice and Advocacy in Systemic Family Therapy. Among an array of entry requirements (some more administrative in nature), you’ll need to have an accredited or internationally recognized bachelor’s degree.

Find out more on their website.

Master of Arts in Marriage, Couple and Family Therapy, University of Central Florida

University of Central FloridaAccredited by CACREP, this course aims to help students combine their research, theory, and practical experiences. The program emphasizes intensive fieldwork in the university’s Community Counseling and Research Center, and involves a practicum and an internship.

It’s delivered face-to-face so is not suitable for non-local students. Some of the course modules include Foundations of Multicultural Counseling, Diagnosis and Treatment in Counseling, and Individual Psychoeducational Testing.

Find out more on their website.

Master of Science in Marriage, Couple, and Family Counseling, Stetson University

Stetson UniversityThis course aims to equip therapists to work with individuals, couples, families, and groups and is accredited by CACREP.

Upon completion of this degree, you’ll be eligible to apply as a registered marriage and family therapist intern before seeking state licensure.

There are a practicum and two internships to complete and an additional 17 core courses, some of which include Sexuality Counseling, Counseling Children and Adolescents, and Family Systems.

Find out more on their website.

PhD in Couple & Family Therapy, Antioch University

Antioch

If you’ve already finished a master’s degree and want to expand your skills in teaching, consultation, or supervision, a PhD may be a worthwhile option.

This doctoral program is accredited by COAMFTE and can be completed online.

The full-time structure of the program involves two years of coursework and practice and one year for a dissertation. One year of supervised clinical practice and one year of other types of experience (e.g., teaching, consultation) are required. You’ll need a clinical master’s degree in mental health to apply.

Find out more on their website.

PhD in Systems, Families, and Couples, Loma Linda University

Loma Linda

This is a minimum three- to four-year full-time program, accredited by COAMFTE, that involves three years of course work, a dissertation, and 36 units in professional development experiences.

The course curriculum is structured around nine guiding concepts, including relational systems, wholeness, empirical process, spirituality, and worldwide focus. Among a list of requirements, you’ll need a master’s degree from an accredited institution to be eligible.

Find out more on their website.

If you’re a student considering different career pathways, our more general article on becoming a counselor may support you in comparing your options for different specializations.

If you’re looking for tools to help your clients strengthen their relationships, be sure to check out our hand-picked exercises from the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Here’s a quick snapshot of two included exercises you can use straight away with your couples therapy clients.

Connecting with Others by Self-Disclosure

In this exercise, clients practice answering questions that require personal disclosure. With one person acting as a listener while the other speaks, it is an opportunity for clients to get comfortable with the vulnerability inherent in self-disclosure as a means to strengthen intimacy and connection.

The Sound Relationship House Inspection

This exercise teaches couples the nine elements of the Sound Relationship House (SRH) as a metaphor for the functioning of their relationship. By having each partner rate their perception of the nine elements, couples will clarify areas of agreement and aspects of the relationship that would benefit from greater nurturing and attention.

If you’re looking for more science-based ways to help others build healthy relationships, this collection contains 17 validated positive relationships tools for practitioners. Use them to help others form healthier, more nurturing, and life-enriching relationships.

A Take-Home Message

Becoming a licensed marriage and family therapist takes many years of study and client work to build the experience and knowledge you need to practice competently in this field. If you’re passionate about empowering people to rebuild and strengthen their relationships with loved ones, this can be an incredibly rewarding career choice.

If you’re already working in the caring profession, enrolling in a shorter course or workshop to develop your relationship counseling skills may be highly beneficial to your work and can contribute to your continuing education hours.

There are many courses and degree programs out there, and the number of distance learning options is increasing. Depending on where you live, the requirements for becoming a relationship or couples counselor will differ, so it’s important to check this out before making any decisions.

We hope this article has given you some useful food for thought when weighing up your options for training. If you’re sold on this career path, we wish you all the best in your next learning adventure.

We hope you enjoyed reading this article. Don’t forget to download our five positive psychology tools for free.

Frequently Asked Questions

The Positive Relationships Masterclass is an online course designed to deepen understanding of positive psychology and its application in fostering healthy relationships. It offers science-based tools and strategies for both practitioners and individuals interested in personal growth.

No, prior experience is not required. The course is suitable for a broad audience, including teachers, psychologists, life coaches, HR specialists, business leaders, and fitness coaches. While experience in coaching or positive psychology can be beneficial, it’s not essential.

The masterclass is of intermediate difficulty, introducing the latest concepts about positive relationships. It’s designed to be accessible to both newcomers and those with experience in the field.

Dr. Helen Brown is a freelance writer with a Ph.D. in Psychology and MSc in Organizational Psychology. She has a varied background working in mental health and wellbeing research and is passionate about all things psychological. As well as writing about many psychology and health topics, Helen loves to scribble away at fictional stories and screenplays too. You can usually find her in the countryside just south of Bristol, UK.